I am 100% certain that I am not the only victim of this crime of electronic harassment who has had to endure the games that these women play with gay men. It has been a part of this crime since its inception, but with Lori LaFond, it is much worse than with the other. I had the opportunity this week to see something that reminded me of just how insidious Lori's crimes really are. It was a letter...and boy did it remind me of what this life of mine is really like.
Without going into detail, I just want to remind all of you what Lori is really like. It couldn't have been a year or more since Lori's first set of lies were adjudicated in a courtroom in San Bernardino before she started sending these letters. They were meant to hurt my mom. Something I knew about then but was reminded of later. Since making up a complete lie about my father having sex with a male student didn't work, Lori started making up an affair between my father and a co-worker. This time, a female. The letters were harsh and hurtful and contained the usual digs like "the wife is always the last to know." I know Lori's style. I know her desires. I know that she made up more lies to create whatever problems she could. A bunch of bullshit! All of it.
I was reminded about the times that Lori continued to try to fix her broken relationship with her father by using this system to make up more lies than the truth could handle. We weren't impressed then and we aren't now. We kept the letters for this whole time so that we could use them against her in the future. The future is now! I am ready to expose her for the lying piece of garbage that she is. I know of other married couples that went through this too. Don't lie anymore Lori, your time is up!
I am reminded of my boyfriend in San Diego, California who was receiving letters on stationary from Sgt. Maj. Eugene A. LaFond. The letters were sent to him while he was underway in the Gulf War. They were little hate bombs about me having HIV and about how she knows all about me. He was told to break up with me or risk being thrown out of the military for being gay. This isn't something he identifies as and I was surprised that they were kept hidden from me. The reality is that Lori, before my brother-in-law's death, was stalking me. She has been doing this for decades and this kind of letter writing is usually done using her sister Jackie's name. She did that again on that restraining order where she made it look like I had somehow learned Jackie's name and threatened her at her job. Jackie didn't work there. The only way I learned her name was AFTER that restraining order was served on me. I didn't even know Lori had a sister...remember, she told everyone she was an "only child".
I believe that the letters to my then-boyfriend were Lori's attempt to infect him with HIV at a later date. They were an attempt to scare him into hurting me. I ended that relationship based on what he was like after he got home from the war. It wasn't my favorite thing to do, but Lori had poisoned the well and I would like to add that he never tested positive for HIV and I never lied to him. It was all Lori. A few years later, my brother-in-law would be dead at her aunt's home at the hands of her uncle's gun. Lori did all of that with lies and deceit.
You see, playing the heart versus the mind game can cause death. Lori is still trying to do that now. She wants to use another family member of hers to cause those kinds of problems. I am not playing that game ever with her.
Lori has spied herself into a massive lawsuit with her mind reading and meddling. I told everyone that I wouldn't help them any longer because my head was saying that after 15 years, it doesn't help. My heart isn't broken, it is stronger than ever. I will be happy, no matter what other people do for Lori.
It's time that criminal meddling is charged under whatever statute can be used. No more tears Missy Erickson, they don't look real to me.
Why is this important now? I have two more letters that Lori sent while she was restraining me. One was from Jonathan's family concerning his death. The other was from Christopher's family concerning my contact with them. Both were hurtful and covered over by Missy Erickson and Jeffrey. They have both been published on this blog and were sent to my home via email and US Mail. Lori sent them both. I want everyone to be aware that Lori is the culprit and she is definitely involved in the crime of harassment and victim threats.
