How Many Of You Were Told NEVER To Talk To Me About Lori LaFond? I'm Kevin Bond And I Approve This Message!

It's is no secret that I've known that Lori LaFond gossips about me now for decades.  She was my high school bully that I never spoke to.  In fact, I've never spoken to her since.  In truth and in fact, I saw her once in Palm Springs at a gay men's resort called Cathedral City Boy's Club.  She was there pretending to be a post op trans woman named "Jessica".  She was pointed out to me by my friend Micah who was there trying to avoid her.  He told me that he paid for her room with her boyfriend "Mikey" whom I never saw.  I saw "Jessica" though, and I know it was Lori LaFond.

By this time I knew that "Jessica" was a notorious thief and drug dealer in Palm Springs.  The only female.  That it turned out to be Lori LaFond who was staying at a gay man's resort not only made sense, because that's what Jessica does and it is exactly the place where you would expect a homophobic oversexualized female with a thing for gay men.  I knew she had this thing for me in high school.  She protested the not yet a fact, that I was gay.  She was vocal about it.   The truth is that I'd never expressed that myself nor with anyone else.  I wasn't in any closet, I was simply being a teenage boy.  I didn't have sex so my sexuality wasn't in question.  Now, looking back, I can see that her homophobia was directed at her own self.  There were instances with my friends, girl friends, that called into question her attraction to women.  I wasn't concerned.  Some of them were.  I got the brunt of it.

I am a very good friend to my friends...often times they will tell you that I am the best friend you could have.  I think of that as a compliment that I am very proud of.  Then there comes another situation that happens.  I've stated that Lori loves to go around to my best friend, and boyfriends, to tell them things about me that she could never have known, and this is because she is a stalker.  She has used this military tech to spy on me and that means my friends as well.  For a long time I could never figure out how my private thoughts became well known to my own friends.  It was odd, to say the least, but it provided me with the knowledge that someone knew what I was thinking.  I know that I didn't tell anyone about my life experiences.  Most of which happened with friends.  Lori has this way of using what I was thinking and turning it into her own story with me as some kind of anchor to the truth.  That's bullshit.
She spies on me and has been doing this for decades.  I would never talk to this person about anything personal.  My brother in law expressed to me that Lori was a drug dealer and that she has some kind of need to get involved with his relationship with my sister and my relationships with my friends.  He told me this before he died and I'll tell you that this is one of the other reasons I am fighting to tell the truth.
You know for yourself that there are thoughts that you have that you don't express to anyone, am I right?  Nobody knows anything about how you thought about someone or what they were like because you never expressed those feelings to anyone.  I'll give you an example now.  When I was working for the USDC Southern District of California, my boss was a really awesome girl named Jamie.  She and I were quick friends and she is the person that hired me for the Justice Department. She is simply one of the nicest people I know.  She was married to one of the U.S. Marshals that was high up on the food chain.  He and I are also friends.  I had him in court all the time protecting the judge and me from the prisoners that came to court.  
Jamie had a brother named Tyler.  He was also really incredibly awesome.  He was handsome too.  I thought of him as Jamie's handsome brother.  We got to be friends.  Lori was watching me the whole time.  She knew who the clerks were in the courthouse and one of them is my friend Vicki.  Somehow Lori made up some kind of story using Vicki's name to say that Tyler and I were "boyfriends".  This is ridiculous.  We rarely saw each other outside of court, but he is a straight man that was in a relationship.  I was a gay man in a relationship.  Lori spread some rumor that Vicki told people that we were secretly boyfriends.  Nothing more ridiculous could be said.  I was offended by the comment that I believed my co-worker said and I made a complaint, not just for me, but for Tyler so that nobody would make that an issue at the courthouse.  This is another example of how Lori listens into conversations then twists them into some kind of story to cause a problem.  Tyler wasn't even working there any longer, I don't believe.  He is a friend, but this kind of friendship, Lori doesn't allow.  Now I know that sounds odd, but that's what she says to people.  Vicki came out looking like a gossiper and I look bad for saying that she said it.  Neither she, nor I, dislike each other and she's one of the most gay friendly clerks there was!
I still owe her an apology, but when she finds out that Lori did this on her behalf, she won't be mad at me, she'll be mad at Lori.
At the time, I hadn't mentioned or thought about Lori in twenty plus years.  This was out of the blue.  It was a left field attempt to hurt me without any kind of provocation.  Now, just because I didn't think of Lori does NOT MEAN she wasn't thinking about me.  She's obsessed with me and my sister.  My brother in law knew it.  He told me.  I am obligated to tell this story for him.
Lori loves to spread rumors about my competence as a court clerk telling everyone that I was "fired for drugs" from that position.  That is 100% not the truth!   In fact, the problems with Lori had grown to the point where I couldn't feel confident in keeping my judge safe or anyone I worked with while these people she sent to stalk me had begun to fire bullets at me at night.  It wasn't safe.  This is exacerbated by the hit and run accident that I got in trouble for when Lori used her own friends to hit me at a street light then call the cops to have me arrested.  I was super paranoid about these people because I'd been shot at in the early morning hours by exactly the same people.  You would be too.
There was so much stuff going on in Lori's brain because she had already arranged my brother in law's killing with people watching her.  These operators know she was setting this up and that made her mad and gave her the feeling of power.  Remember, when that all went down Lori was telling people that my sister was seeing her uncle.  That wasn't true either.  He was her friend and she was trying to keep my brother in law from doing drugs that Lori was selling him.  Once my brother in law was gone she then shifted her attention to me.  I had nothing to do with her, but she may have overheard the conversation between my brother in law and me.  That would make me someone that she has to eliminate.  Can you see now how shots rang out in San Diego.  There is proof that Lori set the wheels in motion to have my brother in law killed.  It's the truth.  I can't help who sees Lori acting a fool on this system...but she blames me nonetheless.
Today I had a rather interesting experience with Lori again.
I was off for 24 hours and Lori concocted another scheme.  She found out recently and a while back that my best friend Kenny used to protect me from her friends back in high school.  6'7" he's my biggest friend but he's also one of the most intelligent.  He's a retired canine officer from San Diego, his wife is also an officer for a long time too.  Now Lori has dreamed up some kind of sexual story between my best friend and me.  Um, there is ABSOLUTELY, CATEGORICALLY, AND NOT EVEN THOUGHT ABOUT,  any kind of sexual relationship between the two of us.  The thought made me cringe.  Not because he's not handsome or something like that, but because he's married, he's straight, he's been my friend forever...and I find that to be offensive.  He was also a very good friend of my brother in law's.  Just like Bryan Anderson is.  This means these two men are friends of my sister too.
It was indeed Kenny that sent me the information that he found from my shooting in San Diego.   He looked up the information and sent it to me.  When he asked why I said something about Lori LaFond, he then said, "Is she still married to Brian (Anderson)?"  Oh I should say, by this time I was telling people that Lori followed me to Sedona, Arizona.  I had a restraining order against me but this is my cop friend...there was nothing sinister about it.  All above board.
I said that she was never married to Bryan...he meant it as a joke.  Kenny knows Bryan Anderson too.  He is the cop that told Kenny the best route to becoming a police officer...Kenny followed it and became one.  You would think having a cop as a best friend in San Diego would have been good for me.  True, it would have been, and I have lots of friends that are, but with Kenny  it was a thing because Lori knows him.  She was already stalking me with people everywhere.  The last thing I was going to do was to go near him with someone stalking me. Not good in this situation.  Looking back, he may have been contacted by Lori at some point or he may have heard her talking about me at a reunion or something else.  I just did the best I could by not involving my high school friends.  I knew Lori was dangerous, but was she behind all of this?  It sure seemed familiar to what she was like in high school!
So leaving the U.S. Justice Department was a choice that I made, not one that they forced.  I am rehire able.  
What I'd like to point out is Lori's continuing contact with the U.S. District Court and the employees there.  Probably because she knows how much I love and respect them.  I was trained by the Justice Department on terrorism; in particular domestic terrorism right after Oklahoma City and 9/11.  I was employed by the court then.  I take terrorism seriously.  I know to say something when I see something.
Most of you know that I applied to work for the court a second time when the person that Lori had contacted about me was gone.  Sam Hammrick was allegedly a pain in the ass when he took over the Clerk of Court job in San Diego.  He told everyone I was his star clerk.  He got there right around when I got shot.  I was sent to counseling as a mandatory thing for my shooting post trauma.  People could see that I was different.  It wasn't drugs...it was being shot at that changed me.  I'd known about being followed for years and have diaries long before Sam Hammrick took over for the long time Clerk of Court, Bobbie Westdahl.  Sam was new.  Sam is gay.  We thought he would be a good fit, he wasn't.  In a short six or seven years, Sam was ousted for running the most efficient court in the country into the ground by firing most of the employees that I worked with.
Shortly thereafter, I saw that my best friend John Morrill, was hired as the new Clerk of Court.  I was elated!  He and his wife are close friends of mine.  Lori, of course, knew this, wrote it down, and was jealous of our friendship.  What I did was immediately congratulate him on his nomination then his position.  I sent him a card.  I think it was to both of them, his wife and him.  I love these two.  They spent more time with me in San Diego than most people.  I housesat for them many times.  I took care of "Precious" their cat and watered their gardens.   John and I carpooled together for years, I'm sure Lori has pictures or information about that too.  John was my mentor, my friend, and one of the people I respected the most.  He even played golf with my father and me.  In short, this was my best friend at the courthouse.  The best pick for that position.
When I found out that a position had opened again at that courthouse, that Sam Hammrick was gone, and that John needed help, I jumped at the chance.  I am rehirable.  I helped to write the manual for that position.  I was the employee of the month in that position and even taught classes for attorneys and their secretaries in the public on the weekends for the USDC.  Those are not the actions of someone that doesn't believe in the USDC.  I am 100% a fan of that institution.  I learned everything in that job from John and others.  I also believed that I could give some good information to the U.S. Attorney about the crime of gang stalking and electronic harassment if I was there.  I know lots of U.S. Attorneys and I know my stuff.
I told nobody that I was applying outside of my mom and dad.  Lori, of course saw this and did something again that is out of character for someone that isn't involved.  The short and glib correspondence between John, a really good friend of mine, and me was horrible.  He and I weren't just friends, I thought we were close friends.  When we weren't carpooling together, we were riding the bus.  The same bus that Lori loaded up with these gang stalkers and it was obvious to me that they were there to spy, on me, sometimes on John, who spent his time reading the morning paper.  It was surreal.
I wanted to work with John again, but somehow, Lori had gotten herself involved.  I heard that Lori talked to John's secretary, Tina, a good friend of mine and one of my absolute favorite people at the court.  I don't know what Lori said, but it had to be something about being investigated, or drugs, or both.  Mind you, nobody at the courthouse knew about my counseling after my shooting or the shooting itself.  Seriously, what should have been made a big deal, wasn't.   I went back to work a day after the shooting...seriously.  I had no time to adjust and these people were all over me again.  I guess Lori wanted to know if it shook me.  Would a bullet coming through your driver's side car window shake you?  I'm not a gangster.  I don't have friends that shoot people.  I was visibly shaken and told the people in my courtroom that I'd been the victim of gun violence.  
The thing was that my boss, then had the nerve to tell me, after the shooting that "he had people watching me everywhere!"  I was finally able to understand who what following me, I thought.  This was long before he was in California; the gang stalking.  So I knew someone that was with these gang stalkers was talking to him and he was relaying the message to me. My attorneys know this is true because I told them about this comment before we even began discussing my job.  Now Sam Hamrick is the Clerk of Court for Riverside County and he allegedly lives in Palm Springs.  How unfortunate for me.  The problem was that when Lori thought I would be doing the job I loved again, she contacted the new clerk, my friend John, and ruined it for me.  This shows a deliberate and preconceived idea that she get in contact with my friends and people that are associated with the court.  It isn't legal.
So Lori still takes great pride in knowing that she can make phone calls behind my back and gossip about me.  I could do the same, but this blog isn't about gossip, it's about the facts of my life.  The fact is that Lori is a drug dealer that stole this tech from a military base where her father, a Sgt. Major, was somehow involved with the tech.  Lori stole it, took it to Palm Springs then used it to run a drug dealing and home spying network on gay people.  I went for a visit when I was 19 and got HIV and was implanted when I had no idea that it was even possible.  She spent the rest of her life dedicated to finding my friends and hurting them or me.
I'm done with her.  Seriously, this girl is sick and she needs to be stopped very soon.  It is domestic terrorism that I never even believed was possible.  Now after years and years of hearing her voice, I know it's her and I know who the government should be looking for.
In the long run this is just another attempt by Lori LaFond to try to control me and members of my family.  She thinks my successes are her failures.  I don't know why.  I've never heard of a lifetime bully before, but I can tell you that they exist.  I never did really pay attention to the girl that screamed slurs at me at the top of her lungs because I am a gentleman and had no idea that her crazy from her teens would last into her fifties.  
This is not a gossip blog.  This is a blog written by a victim of Lori Lafond's to help the parents of my friends to understand that when they tell you some "girl" was fucking with them in Palm Springs or elsewhere, that they have a foothold that I didn't have.  I will confirm that Lori talked about all of my friends and about hurting them if they stayed that way.  I also want people to know that it is my right to find the person that raped me, bludgeoned me, and infected me with HIV long before I had sex and I never used needles.  Lori tried to kill me because my brother in law knew she was dangerous to my sister, father and me.  The truth will come out.