Herd mentality, mob mentality and pack mentality, also lesser known as gang mentality, describes how people can be influenced by their peers to adopt certain behaviors on a largely emotional, rather than rational, basis. When individuals are affected by mob mentality, they may make different decisions than they would have individually.
I think what most people experience when they run into Lori LaFond's gang of misfits is this common belief that they run everything...they don't. What Lori has isn't a girl biker gang. She has access to a system paid for by the military that allows her to read minds...not a privately owned system, a government-sponsored system of communication that allows pilots and other military personnel to be kept track of. After all, when a military soldier is trained by the military, they are the property of the U.S. Military. Lori has taken this concept a bit too far. The victims of this crime are not military, they are unaware and unassuming victims of rape. They never volunteered to spy on this community or provide the police with information about it. The reason so many of us end up in jail is that like so many other private individuals we don't want to help Lori commit crimes. We were made into these beacons of information gathering.
Lori can't understand that she lives in a world of conflicting opinions about herself. The biker culture isn't hidden. The gang lifestyle is a choice. Her hidden agenda lends itself to "knowing" and at the same time "not knowing" people. She's the administrative assistant to the City Manager of La Quinta at one point, then she's the drug dealing head of the gang the rest of the time. She lives in alternate worlds. One thing that I like to see is a real live look at who she thinks she is and what she really does. She once did this to me and I think that she is a hypocrite for wanting to have separation of her own life. She is the person that took my career because I had two lives...a professional one and a personal one. When Lori got the chance, she married the two worlds of my life and got me into trouble. I can tell you this, my two worlds were kept perfectly separate, it was Lori LaFond that wanted them to be shared...so she did. I earned the right to call her out, so I am.
When the innocent gay man is implanted and infected, he becomes an unwilling participant in a game of "gang mentality" that he isn't really aware of nor does he want anything to do with. Lori brings the gang factor in. I once had a friend, for example, that was selling meth. It was Lori that sent two men into his home and held him at gunpoint to steal his supply. They put him on the ground execution-style and told him that if he wanted to sell drugs in that area of town that he would have to pay her for the privilege. That is the difference between a drug dealer and Lori...she thinks she's autonomous because of her relationship with the police. That needed to be shut down completely.
For decades, anyone that wouldn't, "get with the program" was jailed. That's how Lori says it. It's a program of "do what I say to do or I'll have you arrested." I don't buy that shit. Part of that was "don't report the rape". When I went to the hospital and DID, in fact, report what happened as a rape, Lori once again found some way to keep the hospital officials from looking at the MRI and from having a police officer sent to the hospital to take my report. You also have to understand, my head was smashed and they wouldn't review the MRI's that they ordered. This gives Lori some kind of "powerful" feeling, but in the end, you can easily see the break in my skull.
Can you see the break in my skull? I think that everyone that I have shown this to can't believe that any hospital would do this. It's not just the hospital's negligence in discussing who was sitting in their emergency room or in radiology...a huge HIIPA violation, it's the fact that the police were called and nobody came. This is easily seen in hospital records and at the police station. What happened there?
It was the gang or herd mentality that allowed Missy Ericcson to enter that hospital and take away my opportunity to have treatment for a skull injury that could have taken my life. Would she have done this individually? Probably not, but when the gang leader is telling her you to have to do this or I'll get in trouble, then the members of the gang go along with it.
Two months after that MRI was done (there were two done actually), this damn postcard showed up in my mail. Remember, I'd already reported my rape, was immediately arrested the next day two times, and someone was getting away with harassing and humiliating me, the rape victim. So when I learned that this was Lori LaFond, to me, it made complete sense. She's been doing this to me since I was in the sixth or seventh grade. Humiliation IS WHAT SHE DOES, SHE'S A SADIST! Whether the police believe that I was raped or not, these two pieces of evidence show that I was and that the rapist, who took this very photo, was taunting me.
I think that my point is well illustrated. Then she does what she always does, she hides and pretends to be some different kind of person...a city employee. Even if she was this, in the middle of her own fantasy, she takes off and follows me on vacation to meet up with my two friends while in Arizona. Once again she is presenting the public with some kind of innocent angel, but then she is on the road doing exactly what I said she does...gang leader. I will tell you that there is nothing worse than seeing this all play out in person. Here she is the person that beat me nearly to the point of death and she's the person that the City of La Quinta is going to bat for? Come on, she did exactly what I said she was doing...phoning it in with lies.
She used the exact Commissioner that I said she went to for illegal sentences to issue this restraining order during a federal stay, she got a free City of La Quinta attorney to represent her...where is the attorney representing the rape victim? All of this she covers over by stating that my police contact is her ex-boyfriend and the people she says she doesn't know, she's confronting on my vacation. How is she still getting away with this shit?
I've heard a million explanations as to why Lori and Brian LaFond showed up in Sedona, Arizona during her own restraining order which doesn't allow her to talk to my friends to tell them not to be my friend. A million. Not one of them makes sense. I've heard everything from she was there working for the Katzenberg's, to she was on her own vacation, to I followed her, to she was there to get married...and on and on. The truth is that I didn't plan this vacation, my mother did. It was her timeshare that we stayed in and I had no idea that Lori would follow me there. Remember folks the reason that she got this order was because she said I was "becoming more and more obsessed with her." I took the trip with these two men to get away from her and there she was again!!! Everything that I said that she used in that restraining order was true. Every single word of it.
Now I don't know how many other people have been put through this kind of humiliation and degradation by the Palm Springs Police Department that once said that I suffered from "mental issues" on television, but I'm pretty sure that someone who has had his head smashed in without one tiny stitch of police investigation would have the right to be very angry with them. It's illegal. Do they treat all victims of rape this way or just the gays? I still want you all to know that this isn't original for Lori who tells people all the time that she's "been through this before" so she "knows how to handle it." I'm scared that her following me to Arizona illustrates how she "handles it." Is this what the police are willing to give her? I think they are sending a very strong message if it is. We are being hunted and treated like mindless guinea pigs...and if we speak out about it, we will be humiliated on television.
Though Lori claims that she and Bryan Anderson have an amicable relationship after dating for four years, I want to remind Lori that it was Bryan who asked me to become an informant, not her and that he is the person that told me to call the PSPD to file the rape report. Lori has only herself to blame for the problems that she faces. I did as I was told and asked to save my friends and family from her. She's mad that someone would ask me to do what she has dreamed of...become an informant for the police. I never wanted to be that person and turned it down for months, it was only after Lori called to have me arrested so many times that I gave up trying to do it my way and became an informant with Christopher; whom I love.
As far as what else Lori and Brian got in trouble for in Sedona, I don't care. Here is the person that I was talking about on the blog who pretends to be other people, stalks me and my friends, in Sedona, Arizona on my vacation. This trip was planned to be close to Jonathan's father so that he could see them. They live less than an hour away. It is 37 miles from Sedona to Dewey, Arizona. Jonathan was in trouble with Lori and so was Anthony. They were in a far better position to tell Jonathan's father what was going on. He is the son of a Long Beach Police Chief and we needed help. Who better?
Remember this beautiful woman? She told everyone that O.J. Simpson was going to kill her and get away with it. I'm saying the exact same thing...Lori LaFond is trying to kill me and the MRI's show it, so does her HIV, and so does the bullet hole in my car door in San Diego. Are you going to let her get away with it? If you do, then you have sat and watched an innocent man hunted down and killed while he begged you for help!!! Please help me!!!
I don't want to be another news headline for being a victim of a violent crime. I don't want to end up dead outside of my home while trying to help people understand that Lori is a violent predator that doesn't obey court orders, even when they support her. What can I do to stop this person from stalking me when evidence points to her and nobody cares. I want it to be known that I am begging you all to stop her.
I will remind everyone that I am writing this blog for my friends' parents. If there is anyone that feels like they don't know or understand what this has done for them, then simply ask them. In-person, not some Lori bullshit email pretending to be them. You know this is possible because Jonathan is alive yet I received a death notice from his father. Remember, Jonathan's father Ed, he's the son of a Long Beach, California, Police Chief...you know like the huge city of Long Beach....way bigger than Palm Springs. There is no way on Earth that he would send an email about his son's death when he is alive. He wouldn't implicate his family in the death and he certainly wouldn't put his wife and him in danger of this kind of felony. Come on folks, this is easier than we are making it.
All along, in this case, I've done what a reasonable victim of rape would do if they didn't get justice. All along, in this case, Lori LaFond has involved herself in one way or another. She denies knowing Steven Frey, but I know for a fact that she does. Lori seems to think that she is anonymous, but the truth is that I've heard about the lousy things she's had to say about me and my family since I was about 11 years old. For years, when I was too far for her to get to herself, she sent her brother to San Diego to follow me...she even admitted that to my own sister who she says things like, "...my brother lives in San Diego and knows all of his friends." Okay, so why is my ten-year reunion picture, mailed to my home but never received in your belongings. The address of my home is on the envelope, but it was stolen and taken to Lori? Why? Either someone knows that Lori is paying people for trinkets of mine or she is ordering someone to steal from me, either way, this is really odd behavior. Oh, btw, that reunion picture was stolen from me twice, once right after my reunion, then six or seven years later when I asked for another one....that's a long time for Lori to be stalking me.
There are a lot of reasons why I am so concerned at this time mainly it has to do with the level of anger that Lori is showing lately and my past with her that says, "She's going to kill me." She's not far from where I live, allegedly. She's pretending not to live with who she does, which is sketchy. She acts like she can't work because of this or the other blog, but she's never had a single job a day in her life. This is, once again, pushing someone in front of a moving vehicle then telling everyone that I was driving it...when I was nowhere near the party. Lori blames me for everything bad in her life...I don't know her.
