Maybe I missed something when I was studying my senior thesis in college. I got an "A" on the thesis and thought I was supportive in a way that most women would be happy with. I worked for powerful women, preferred it actually. I support women in the workplace and firmly believe that no minority will achieve equality until women do it first. It's very basic. If women are equal to men in all aspects of life, then the rest is necessary to follow. There are two genders...male and female, no matter how a person identifies. We can't give either side more rights than the other. So "people" have equal rights.
This whole situation where Lori and Missy aggressive-passive-aggressive approach that Missy and Lori take to "make women more equal" has left the gay community in a situation where disease, crime and punishment has become an outlandish crime against LGBTQ people and other minorities.
Some will say that Missy isn't as bad as Lori is with this because Missy identifies openly, sometimes, as a lesbian. I say sometimes because Missy never mentions "lesbian" until a man has bought her a drinky-poo or two...or a line of coke. Lori is open about her hatred of homosexual men but surrounds herself with gay men all the time. This is one of those excuses she uses that "she has friends that are gay" so she knows what gay men are like, but if you know Lori, she chooses some pretty weak assed men that will take a bashing for drugs that she provides them with.
Neither woman thinks they have any kind of need for a man, but when the time comes they BOTH rely on men to get the "job done"; which can mean anything from finding them more drugs to beating the shit out of some poor guy. What's a woman to do?
I find this whole situation to be one where we have two sociopathic people on drugs taking out their frustration on men because they don't think of them as equal. A man is simply a dog that needs behavior training. Ouch, ladies! That really hurts.
Now, I'm a man that loves men, one in particular. He's neither a chauvinist nor is he a pushover. I find him to be funny, charming, socially acceptable and nice. When these two women, however, get involved, he gets frustrated, angry and upset. If there is one thing I do know it is that all men are NOT THE SAME. Some are more evolved than others and I think it is the same with these two women. They just aren't as evolved as they could be without all the drugs that they are using.
Not every argument between a woman and a man is the man's fault. Just like every argument between two women is a man's fault. That two women take the approach, "I'm a woman so I understand, does a complete disservice to other women." What if the woman is clearly wrong? Does that mean all women should come to her assistance? I don't think so.
With Missy and Lori, there is always some man that they are hating on. Whether it is Missy with her, "Don't ever talk to Kevin or his family about this crime" or Lori's "he's so mean to people (mostly women)" neither really should have that opinion of me at all. I'm being tortured and I think it is a Hell of a lot better than I point this out than some other man or woman that might want to do both of them bodily harm.
What I find particularly upsetting is how these women, that do not know me at all, have used my own sister, a woman, to get at me. Both used a tactic that is not helpful to women at all. This sister of mine has been brutalized by this system through me and Bryan Anderson. Through no fault of ours, she's been widowed, left to raise two children on her own, their insurance money was stolen and she's had to watch her own brother kicked around for years and years. Though she doesn't know what the real truth is, these two women do. They are fighting some cause for women that is making women look foolish, irresponsible and dumb.
That there are men that aren't willing to tell my sister the truth because of what these two have said and done is irresponsible on their part. I would say that the women that know what these two have done is equally as irresponsible.
I don't know Missy or Lori by choice. I have the right to not want to know women that make women look this evil, dangerous, manipulative, violent or drug addicted. That's my right as a person. I think that drugs have caused both women to force themselves upon men that they have no feelings for at all, therefore, they don't care what happens to these men, their sisters, their mothers, and their families.
Lori thinks that "it's fun" to hurt a man. That's really not something that society needs. At the same time, it is really hard to try to stop this crime when both pretend to be nice, friendly, employed and a benefit to society. Neither has impressed me yet with their understanding of men or women. It's a people problem that they have. Anti-social behavior dictates that neither really feels for humanity or other people. The people that they hurt around them, including their own families, have suffered because of their lack of empathy for anything but their own problems. Oh, they try to personalize this problem that they've caused themselves by shoving the responsibility off on a man that they can both hate, but the problem is inside of their bodies and brains. It's not a matter of what they can get someone to do for them, it's what they can't do for themselves.
Neither can stop using crystal meth. Obviously, it is not something that either is capable of while living together or apart. This isn't a man's problem, it's them problem.
I can't make their drug problems disappear by having them punish me constantly for satisfaction. They just get eviler.
Missy has seen a psychiatrist after psychologist and she's good at the psychobabble, but the truth is that she's only good at getting them to believe what she wants them to believe. She's a professional patient. The heart of the problem still exists.
Lori is constantly looking for approval by doing unacceptable things. I can't fix that. How could I approve of someone that's tried to kill me? Is that rationale?
There is a whole sex issue going on too, but since I'm a gay man, I definitely can't help them there either.
What they have found is a common victim in me (and my family). The line was crossed when Missy used my sister to get at me. It's not acceptable for that situation to exists and still hear them claiming, "I am a woman, so I understand." How. You don't go ripping off a broken woman with that kind of remark. Missy even said that her mother was experiencing the same kinds of memory loss that my mom has had. That's not true. It's a manipulative move to get what she wants. What they've done is use their gender to hide behind. I refuse to let that stand. Yes, they are women, but they are women that committed crimes. That means the "woman" part is gone. People that commit crimes are simply people. The law says it and so do I.
All I want to do is be with my boyfriend, something that both Missy and Lori are 100% against. They've said so to Steven Frey and Christopher Monti. I don't know why two women would even be concerned. I never mentioned either to Christopher or Steven. They came for me.
A man, just like a woman, has the right to fight back and find help when a crime has been committed against him. I'd support a woman that was in my position too. This isn't about men versus women, it's about criminal versus victim. When we listen to Missy's "different idea" we're hearing a co-conspirator talking. Since when has that ever been acceptable?
I don't follow Missy around and tell Lori when she is having sex with someone or provide Lori with the address or the other girl's name. Missy does that with Lori. Men and some women in Palm Springs are nothing more than chew toys for these girls. They don't care about our privacy and I'm wondering if that is why they are so angry that I've exposed their system of torture? Frankly my own privacy has never been private so telling you about this crime isn't an invasion of their privacy it's my attempt to get mine back.
So untl Melorsa understands that we don't want your infighting in our lives and what you did is a crime, then we will constantly be fighting back to show people what has been done without any consent or mistake on our part.
Workplace violence restraining order? Come on. I'm the last person on Earth that would attack a woman at work. Good thing that these two don't have jobs or lives that can be destroyed because they would say that I'm hurting them. How? I don't use or buy drugs. I have nothing to do with their business. All I'm doing is trying to stop them from hurting more innocent people. Man or woman.
