The best thing that Lori ever did for me was accuse me of "workplace violence" and file a restraining order loaded with lies.
You see when she did this, she interviewed with the police, in person, without any idea of what she was doing. She's got this "big assed" attitude that is always in some kind of imaginary competition with me.
First of all there is NO COMPETITION. I couldn't be happier for Lori's lesbian relationship with another woman or not. To me, that is a compliment, but this isn't the problem for her...though there are pictures to back up that assessment. To a gay man, being a lesbian is the opposite side of the same coin.
Clearly she disagreed when she vehemently denied the "lesbian" comment that I made and decided to make a federal case out of it. Actually she made a state case out of it and I made it a federal case.
In an effort to do what "Lisa" always does, she decided to bad mouth me and make herself look like some kind of virginal angel. Um, have any of you met Lori? Not a virginal angel, but I digress. To hear her say it, she should be canonized for sainthood. Literally, Jesus should come and scoop her up and give her angel wings. This is the same girl that sold my brother in law methamphetamine behind my sister's back.
These are Lori's issues. The real issues are decided by law. Now, I've already told all of you about the illegality of the ruling that granted her a bullshit restraining order without a hearing so that I could tell the truth...so let me tell you about a few other issues that are in there. I refuse to post a copy of it on here simply because Lori doesn't have one and I'm not going to provide her another chance to lie.
You all know that THE Lori Lafond that filed this "workplace violence" restraining order WAS, WITHOUT A DOUBT, IN SEDONA, ARIZONA WHILE I WAS ON VACATION. THERE ARE PHOTOGRAPHS OF HER THERE. It's the same one because she talks about going to high school with me. I have the pictures and I am far closer friends with most of the people that she rode there with under false pretenses. She had to thumb a ride there because nobody else would ride with her that far.
To get rid of these people once she got to where she wanted to go, she told the group that "her brother was coming to Sedona and they couldn't stay there!" After allegedly sifting through all of their belongings, she sent them away angry....now that's the story I've heard. This would show you that the girl I was looking for, with a brother that is also infected with HIV, was in Sedona, with her brother at the same time as I planned a vacation. So the girl that filed the restraining order AFTER Sedona, is admitting that her brother was coming on that trip.
In that restraining order, Lori acts like she doesn't believe that I am a police informant. As usual, Lori likes to pee on the leg of a person to mark her territory. She knows my police informant and dreams up a "four year relationship" with him that she adds to the application. This is a fallacy. First of all she knew, for a fact, that BOTH Christopher and I were informants for the cop, Bryan Anderson, that she says she had a "four year relationship" with. If I am not mistaken, he was married at that time...or very close. It wasn't Lori that he was engaged to either. Why make up a relationship with him? I can tell you why. It is because the cop that she finally convinced to take a police report was a Deputy Fiebig who she has previously told that she was in a relationship with Bryan.
She then used this "contact" to legitimize her bullshit. The bullshit story that she gave is that she works for the City of La Quinta and that she was "in fear for her life" because I, the informant, was looking to contact her to eliminate her as a suspect in our investigation. What this cop didn't hear was my side of the story because I refuse to speak with anyone in law enforcement that Lori has ever contacted. The conversations are always blaming me for something and very disrespectful. I am an informant and I am responsible to one police officer and that is Bryan Anderson.
To keep me from contacting Bryan, she named him as a "ex-boyfriend" in the application that became an order without a court hearing that I could attend. This order then had a huge "chilling effect" on my safety and my contacting of my police contact. You see a restraining order does not allow for contacting "friends" of the petitioner to talk about anything. I abide by all court orders. So as not to violate the illegal order from a commissioner that has made illegal rulings and sentences in the past, I went along with it.
Here is the next problem. Lori has always tried to make me look like I am stupid. I'm a college graduate and I've had lots of experience in the courtroom working for the U.S. Dept of Justice. Whatever she could say in this "workplace violence" restraining order, she threw in. Complimenting herself by saying that I was becoming "obsessed with her". What the fuck????
Here I am, two months after being stalked to Arizona on my own vacation, Lori has already contacted BOTH of my friends that were with me while we were there and forced them to come to where she was spying on me from...and I'm the one that gets a restraining order from her???? I could not be less obsessed with a human being than I am with her. I've not spoken to her. I've not mentioned her to anyone. I don't have pictures of her and in fact the only reason she even had anything to say was because I was looking to eliminate her as a suspect...then she goes and does this? This is the same behavior that I was talking about.
To be correct...she pretended to be the sister of the kid that my father was accused of molesting in the 80's before he was acquitted. This girl sent me some kind of hateful message the second I joined facebook for like a day or two...once again "catfishing" like she was the "sister of the accuser". Have I not told you all about how she thinks she is "every gay man's sister"?
So here I am on facebook, first day, and I get this strange hateful message from the sister of my father's accuser. Remember, he was acquitted.
The only reason I was on facebook was at the suggestion of Anthony Dabiere. Jonathan had already told me that "Lisa" was Lori LaFond, so I had to check out the lead. Like any gay man in this country would do, I'd heard she was a lesbian and thought, "Oh good, this should be easy to find her." When you go looking for someone on facebook you use what you know will limit your search. Now, using Lori's standard, I said that "I'd heard she was a lesbian" and asked "does anyone know where I can find her"? How can it be "workplace violence" if I don't even know where she works?
This is the same girl that called me a flaming faggot on numerous occasions in front of crowds of kids in high school. She fails to mention this to the lawyer that prepared the application. This is where I have a huge problem with "The Virgin Lori". There are so many fallacies about what she had to say about me that I couldn't even read the piece of garbage.
Number one and most important is that "she doesn't know a single thing about me since high school". Um, her uncle shot, in self defense, and killed my brother in law, a fact that she talks about with everyone. Though he did this in self defense, there is a huge question as to Lori's role in that shooting. Did she put the wheels in motion to cause that death? There is speculation as to that fact but Bessie Smith knows the truth...and so do others. Bessie also knows that Lori has stalked me for decades.
I don't think that her statement is true. Lori has also contacted my former girlfriend and my former boyfriend in both Riverside and San Diego. I don't know if she's aware, but those relationships were very long after high school At one point, she even had the two of them meet at the home I lived in. Lori loves confrontation and the more juicy the better, she just doesn't want to be the one in the fight. I don't fist fight...I use the law.
I've heard hundreds of stories about Lori talking about where I was and what I was doing from other people...it was obvious to me. The stories are always the most hateful things that she can think up. Never has one of her rumors been kind...she's basically spying and lying.
If you don't believe me, consider the hateful emails that I got from someone calling herself, Laurie Johnson...whose email links to a local address here. It talks about making me disappear, being paid to harass me, that being an informant is like being a "snitch" and they go missing all the time. The email goes on to accuse me of committing a crime to have my father acquitted when I was 11 or 12 years old. The email goes on to make my father look like some kind of child molester (a story she tried to convince another friend of mine, Danny, to make up with her to have him arrested). You see, it isn't me that wants anything to do with her or needs to be restrained...it's her. I've got the HIV to prove it too.
The next thing is the Bryan Anderson issue. He is my police contact and he is the person that ASKED ME to do the job. This, I assume, infuriated Lori, who considers herself "the only person in Palm Springs that knows the police". Since Bryan refuses to work with her using this system of surveillance because of the illegality issues, I am a much better candidate. What I learned about this case was first hand. I was there. I was interviewing. I didn't break any privacy laws to do what I did. I spent the time and paid the price for it too. The choice to ask me to inform, I must say, was brilliant on Bryan's part. It also set into motion a string of problems for him in the gay community because of Lori's anger. When Lori doesn't like a cop, she sets them up to be fired. I'll let Bryan tell this part of his own story. I don't believe he was fired, but he was asked to retire early is what I've heard. This possibly could be because of the problems Lori caused with the "Warm Sands Sting" operation or because he was working on this case of electronic harassment. I'm not sure and it isn't my story to tell.
I know Lori's usual routine. If someone thinks she's a lesbian, when she was in school, she would cling to whatever scumbag guy she could to shake the image. The fact is that many closeted gays do this for a while, but Lori took this to a whole new level with Bryan Anderson. If you put the two in columns and looked at them on paper, no two people could ever be more different. In this case, opposites do not attract. How could they, he was married as far as I know and admitting to a "four year" affair in a court document isn't something you should do if it isn't true. Bryan is not an affair having kind of guy. Lori is always trying to be the "other woman", she's even trying it now with Christopher and me. To go so far as to say something like this is one thing, but other cops know that she's said that she was "married to" Bryan. I have the text message.
Married to Bryan? In her dreams.
So you can imagine all the heaping on of "I have children", "I've been married", "I love dick" conversations that she must have had with her attorney that believed she was an actual employee of the City of La Quinta. Once again, Lori used people and tried to make them responsible for her lie after the fact. Just like making a fake obituary for Jonathan Mendenhall but saying that his sister and mother were there til the end and had a memorial for him. If he isn't dead, she's then implicated Jonathan's mother and sister. His whole family is implicated in a fraudulent death. It's the way she does everything. She uses her family, my friends, your friends and whoever she can think of to justify her story, then uses phone spoofing and emails to back up her lies. You see she can make it LOOK like Mrs. Mendenhall is calling by spoofing her phone number and pretending to be her, but she isn't her.
She is a manipulating user of people who has always wanted to tell people that I was infatuated with her. Um....bullshit!!!! I could easily live the rest of my life without ever hearing her name again. The problem is that she can't get past harassing me because I was her poster child for this harassment. I am her biggest success when it comes to ruining a person...she's even called my sister over the years to tattle on me.
So for Lori to pretend to have a relationship with a married man and tell the court that she's never talked to him about me on this system is a fucking lie. Now we have the BIG MISTAKE. You see I am the informant for Bryan Anderson and I know what he's said about "electronic harassment" to other victims...and now he's either going to look like he had an affair or he's going to have to come clean about Lori LaFond's relationship to this crime. I'm sure he's been waiting for this opportunity to tell the truth too. He's no dummy.
To be honest, he has a much bigger responsibility to the officers that were fired because of this system than he does to the current staff of the PSPD. Many of these men were friends of his that Lori didn't like because they wouldn't do as she ordered. Those families and especially their wives, need to know about the girl that destroyed their marriages and their career. It isn't Chief Reyes that I give a shit about, it's the good police officers that refused to do what he did for Lori. She simply used Bryan and acted like he was responsible for the police end of this "special forces unit". She never worked with Bryan, she worked against him.
Stalkers are constantly trying to include their victim in any kind of drama that they can dream up. This "workplace violence" bullshit was an attempt to put this before the hanging judge at the courthouse where Lori pretends to be other people on the phone. You see, I was already on probation that was ending at the exact time that Lori pushed this restraining order through and she wanted something "violent" sounding to go before Commissioner Best. Crimes of violence would violated my probation...even though she followed me on my vacation. It was like Jodi Arias or some shit. I would no longer stand in a room with her than stand in an open sewer. My whole family left a memorial she was at because none of us wanted to be near her.
There is a "fantasy" and then there is a "fantasy world that Lori never leaves". For some ungodly reason, she puts me in this fantasy that never ends. I don't know why or care.
Now I have the option of exposing her lies using the very people that she defrauded. The attorney that she used for free but at the cost of the City of La Quinta. The cop that she used to legitimize her heterosexuality. My police contact that she acted like I didn't work for but can prove she did with an interview Christopher had on videotape where she tells him, "You no longer work for Bryan Anderson, you work for me for the police." You see the manipulations never seem to end with this serial fantasizer. I am not interested in her sexually or otherwise, I'm gay, as she pointed out numerous times in high school and after.
I have a boyfriend. I don't have any need to bother some woman that I have nothing to do with. It is just that she and her brother won't stop following me and trying to hurt me physically. It's been going on for decades...it simply won't stop by ignoring her. There is proof that someone calling herself "Laurie" is behind this. She basically tells me that she is stalking me for pay and that she can "make me disappear" because of some twisted thing that happened when I was in junior high school. This is something that Lori LaFond, who lived near the accuser, would know about.
Simply put, she ruined my relationship with one boyfriend, then another, then another and now she's trying to do it again. I can't be happy because it doesn't fit into her fantasy. As if I have ever done anything to stop her from living her life...never. I could not care less about a person if you paid me to. The reason I write about this on this blog is because it is the ONLY WAY to communicate with people without her deleting the message, forwarding the phone system, deleting voicemails and so forth. I came up with a way to deliver the message that she can't stop so she made something up and submitted it to the court under oath.
Now those statements, including some from her own sister (who I didn't know existed) and my best friend, are the subject of this perjury investigation. I have a feeling that pressure was put on my best friend to say things that he did not want to say. He's also never heard me talk about Lori in my life. As far as he knew, I didn't like her because of the things she spread about me and my family in high school. He doesn't realize the problems that she caused HIS family with his own brother in law or his own sister. If he thinks about it, she's been doing that since college. Phoning him out of the blue to tattle on some made up story that she's concocted in her mind.
My best friend is 100% heterosexual. When I found out she was snitching to him about things, I made up a story about having a child with a woman from Texas, just to see if she would say more...and she did! I knew that Lori just couldn't resist a juicy story like that for everyone. She made up some story about some kind of homosexual relationship between he and I and told him I said something about it. Here she is telling these stories to people over and over again and now that she's caught following me in Sedona, she wants nothing to do the reality she caused me. My best friend has been married to the woman that I INTRODUCED HIM TO FOR WAY OVER TWENTY YEARS...THIS KIND OF STORY WAS MEANT TO DO ONE THING...HURT THEIR MARRIAGE. I won't stand for it.
The lies and deceit have to stop because what my friends do not know is how horrible she truly is. The nerve of this girl trying to make me look like I am a liar after all the things she's said about me and done to me...it's insane.
To try to draw me into her fantasy of having me jailed is not going to happen.
The fastest way to see who is spreading a rumor about you is to make one up about yourself and let the snitch do her job. She did.
So my favorite mistake are all the omissions and additions that Lori LaFond made to that application. What it did for her was buy her time. What it did to me was put my life in danger.
