Someone suggested to me that I should consider the letter sent to me from Mrs. Monti to be authentic...and let that stand for why this situation still exists. Trusting anyone, regardless of what you believe in this life, is incredibly unsafe. I've got to go with my own instincts when it comes to why I act the way I do. If asked in court, why did you believe that Christopher Monti was your friend or that his family needed you to help him, I have a simple answer: "They asked. Or at least his mom did." So, now that the chapter has ended and the changes that a person goes through are inevitable, it is time to redraw my boundaries for what it means to go on in the future. I will not let all of you know what I feel or plan on doing, but you can expect there to be more of me and less of everyone else that I depended upon. I can get there from here.
Make no mistake, I was asked by Christopher's mother to watch out for him in California while she lived in New York. It was her request, not mine. I accepted because that is the kind of person that I am. It would appear now that it is different, and Mrs. Monti has wanted it that way for some time, so I've moved on. Wouldn't you?
There were these in 2014:
Then there was this, just days before he was arrested. Of course, I was under the assumption that Lori LaFond, illegally sent me this letter while there was a restraining order against me from Lori. I must have been wrong.
Of course, there was this letter from Christopher's mother before he was arrested and thrown in jail because of Lori Jean LaFond's lies. I should have just let it go then. Now, I'm certain that it is truthful, and I should not believe anything positive about Christopher's involvement in this crime as far as his informant work would have entailed. Clearly, I was wrong, and I should not have included him. I will say he voluntarily became a police informant at the time; I had no say in his decision. It was a big mistake.
Now that we all know that I did nothing more than what I was asked to do by his so-called mother. I wanted to assure all of you that it is my choice to continue without the Monti family's involvement in the future. They are allegedly not involved in anything criminal, so that is the last word from me on them.
Clearly, Christopher was arrested under really suspicious circumstances, and his family is fine with leaving that all in the past. I wish them well and will make sure that future plans will not include them financially or morally. They need me to stay away from them. I haven't even bothered since.
Either way, this is how Christopher wanted it, so I can rest assured I did what I could to keep him alive. It was my call, and I made it. He lives today because of me. I take full responsibility, and he takes none. If, however, he is involved in any way with Jonathan Mendenhall, I can tell you my opinion will be much different, to say the least. Jonathan remains a person of interest in this case, and Christopher's involvement with him makes him fair game if he is in any way involved.
From this letter, you can clearly see that Christopher lets his mother and sister do all the talking for him. I think that is something I probably would have grown not to like very much. I deal with my relationships in person by myself, not through my family members, the way Lori LaFond does! I also wanted to point out that the only things I did were to send one-sided postcards and one Christmas present to both Christopher and his mother. The present was a pair of angel's wings with an opal that they hold. It is a Christian symbol of hope. They clearly took it as some kind of something they could shit on. I believe that people like this deserve to understand that I won't be making that mistake ever again. As the world turns, I wish them no ill will, but I won't ever be helpful to them again. Clearly, that isn't the way his family does anything. I care about other people's feelings....they care about their own.
Christopher wanted to be invisible...God granted his wish.
We can all rejoice in the love of Jesus Christ, just some more than others.
Thanks.
Kevin
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