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I've been waiting to write this post for a long time. Mostly I wanted to do it for posterity's sake. My friends deserve to know the truth about my absence in their lives. I think it is time that I do more to let them know that I tried, very hard, to keep Lori LaFond out of their lives. These are my straight high school friends, their spouses and families that I am talking about.
You have to understand that when you are gay you go through a period of acceptance and understanding. So that period is usually a few years once you have come out or just before. When you couple that with my unknown origin HIV infection in the mid 1980's, it can further drive you into your own world. So Lori's isolation of my life began very early. I had two families, my friends and family from home then my friends/family from my LGBTQ life. I wasn't embarrassed by either. I love them all. What you begin to start noticing is that all of my friends began acting differently, as if someone, we know it is Lori, was telling some kind of lies about me and it made all of them leery. They didn't act the same and I knew it.
Also, it was at the same time that Lori LaFond infected me that I was also implanted with a chip that would tell her more than I would ever have said in person. Remember, she and I do not talk...never have...never will. I have no reason to talk to someone that I know is stalking me.
When I moved from Riverside to San Diego, all the ties that Lori had following me had to be rebuilt in the SD area. It helped for a while but I immediately had people following me to UCSD where I was studying paralegal-ing. The cars were back and they were following me around. It became so common place that I simply got used to them following me everywhere. It must have cost Lori and Brian a fortune. I can't imagine following me around. I was normal. I was working. I was working out. I was in a relationship. I was semi-happy minus people following me everywhere. It's kind of a downer. It's also embarrassing.
Then you start to realize that Lori is going around telling everyone that not only was I gay, but I had HIV and I gave it to everyone on purpose. Nothing could be further from the truth. I was gay, she gave me HIV and I would never try to hurt someone like she does. She would then go around and try to infect everyone I know. ALL of my friends that were gay. It got to the point where the less people I knew that safer it would be for them. I have lots of friends, but I can't see any of them. It makes for a really solitary life, but safer for them.
I will give you some examples now.
I have tried to avoid my friends from high school for a very long time now because of Lori's hate for everyone (though she will pretend she doesn't in person) and because I know that she has this weird thing about my friend that are nice to me. It's always been her thing to try to derive pleasure out of painful situations, so I avoided my straight high school friends for a long time.
One of my very closest friends, Kelley, was doing a nice thing by staying close to me when I first moved back here. She is a really nice girl. I saw her a few times when I came back, but then I would hear Lori getting all kinds of excited about her. Now Kelley, had her breasts implanted, and Lori was listening in to that conversation with me and Kelley. For me, not a big deal, but for Lori....Oh my fucking God! Lori is a lesbian that LOVES BIG TITTIES! So, top of her list was Kelley when I came back and sure enough, Kelley noticed that "she was being followed". She told me that! Now I don't know about you all but that is too much for me. Her father passed away and low and behold, Lori Jean LaFond was at the memorial?!?!? She knew about the death because I knew about it. I was working on this project and she already had a restraining order against me, so she showed up where I was and mad dogged me. This is right about the time that Lori ordered people to stalk Kelley. This didn't happen before I came here only after I came back and Lori followed me.
It seems that every time Lori LaFond has some story to tell about me, she has to tell the person she's talking to "don't tell Kevin I told you" simply because she wouldn't be able to explain that I never told her anything. It comes from just hearing anything. My friends need to ask themselves, "How many times have I heard from Lori LaFond about Kevin?" Think about it. I never spoke to her even once. Now she can't really get out of it either because in court paperwork for her bogus restraining order, she says, "I don't know anything about him since high school." Does that really match up with what they know or are they just keeping mum because Lori threatened them to. She doesn't work for the police or any law enforcement agency, she just spies on people. I once made up a story about having a kid with a woman just to see if that would get around. I've heard that Lori just loves to spread gossip. Sure enough, she did just that. I knew it was her.
If some of my friends think about it, they will have run into her at places where they did not expect to see her. That wasn't by chance, it was because she is stalking them. My best friend should remember the first time his father found a joint in his sock drawer and where that joint came from. She began distributing drugs in high school so that she could call the student's parents and get them in trouble. My best friend needs to call Tom S. and ask him if this is true. He'll find out that Lori set him up too. His brother in law too. If he thinks about that library confrontation, wasn't that Lori Jean LaFond that set up that meeting, though he said it was his wife??? It's all stalking using remote neural monitoring. It's something that I've dealt with since 1987. I can't help but think of stuff back then and Lori would study me for years.
Let's get another rumor out of the way too. I don't know her brother Brian. He is a lot of years ahead of me in school. I thought I remembered Lori telling everyone she was, "an only child", so I had no idea about her family, I never wanted to. Lori likes to tell everyone that since her brother is gay, he finds these things our about me. That's not true. He isn't someone around my friends. He does occasionally run into them when he ordered Jonathan Mendenhall to find my friends and bring them to her so she can lie about me. This isn't really his thing, it's Lori's. She has this weird thing about turning my friends into enemies. Rest assured, I have never told anyone anything personal about their families. It is a pattern that Lori follows about finding a person's "best friend" and making them "do things" for her. The truth is that she stalks me so much that the world closes in on me. Who files a restraining order for a place she doesn't work, for something that is illegal, then proceeds to follow me to another state using friends of mine to take her there??? Think about it. That is psycho.
The only person that really brought her name up to me was Bryan Anderson at my brother in law's funeral (probably because my brother in law warned me about Lori) and after my father went to him with me and my mom to talk about what was going on in Palm Springs. Two times I'm dealing with shit she caused, and he brings her up??? Not strange when you know Lori's modus operendi. She loves to make implanted people think about her. It's always something negative so then she has perceived a slight and now she has a reason to hate the victim. Remember, this victim is already the victim of a rape. Now she has given herself permission to stalk and ruin the lives of her rape victims. It's a sick game she plays with herself.
For over thirty seven years, I never spent one moment thinking about Lori Jean LaFond. My brother in law warned me about her and Bryan Anderson brought her name up. I said nothing back to either of them. Ask Bryan. I had nothing good to say so I said nothing. That was also a mistake. My silence made her think I feared her, not true. I fear no human being. I didn't talk about her because she was an obvious homophobe, a drug dealer (from my brother in law), and generally not someone I would ever want to be friends with, but for me, that was in the past. For her, everything was in real time.
She's contacted my fraternity brothers, my girlfriends, my boyfriends, my family, my co-workers were stalked, my bosses, and everyone you can imagine. You see she is an aggressive, aggravated stalker and quite typical, she filed a restraining order to get my attention. Little did she know I wanted her to. I was happy it happened, and I knew she was lying the whole time. The entire document is a lie, from where she worked to a relationship with Bryan Anderson, to not knowing anything about me since high school and beyond. It was clear to me that this high school bully was a full time stalker of me and my family. My best friend Kevin should understand that she did it to his family too. I remember the "not working for the police" situation that happened. That was Lori LaFond at her best and worst.
Lori doesn't show up places accidentally, it is always planned. She hears about people meeting up through this brain link system then pops in like she didn't know she would see you there. It was this very system that helped to cause the death of my brother in law.
I knew that one of the keys to drawing her out was the word "lesbian". Lori loves to tell people that she's been married and has kids, mostly with Bryan Anderson. I have the proof. My best friend knows that isn't true. No kids ever. She lives with two girls that she's lusted over for decades and has even told my own boyfriend that she is a lesbian. For some reason she thinks it is so important to "look straight" but when you are gay, you know. So my friend suggested Facebook for a tool for this investigation, and I said, "I'm working on an investigation for the police. I wanted to know if anyone knew where I could find Lori LaFond, I hear she is a "lesbian" now." Partially, I thought it was interesting that the girl that used to slur me in high school was a lesbian and I have lesbian friends from school and life. If anyone would know where she was so I could eliminate her from the suspect pool it would be the girls. Our girls. Lori was instantly offended.
I think it is ridiculous to hear her talking about girls, all the time, on this system then she flips again in public with people that she wants to be offended. To be fair, it was Lori that outed me to everyone, first day of school, then three more times. This was far more sinister than a gay man looking for the LGBTQ community to help me investigate what I knew was a stalking case. When you want to find a duck, you go to where the ducks are, not to the Sahara Desert. Personally, the compliment of inquiring to lesbians about one of their own was a step up in my mind for the girl that was so obviously violently homophobic in the past. Some things never change. She lies for a living. She sells drugs for favors.
Lori just keeps coming at me like some kind of bulldozer without brakes. I no more wanted her in my life than AIDS, but that is what happened.
If any of my friends have doubts about whether I'm telling the truth, think about those class reunions. Every single time Lori goes on the rampage to try to get me to come to them. I've heard she shows up and makes a big scene every single time. I won't go ever again. Lori shows up at all kinds of our high school reunions; not even her classmate reunions, some are from her brother's class years ahead or my sister's. This is so she can look at people that were implanted by the Marine base and get phone numbers. She has a vendetta against people from our hometown, so I avoid them all.
She threatens people into silence. I simply don't talk about her, but I had to do something because my friends were being infected and ambushed all the time. I would be remiss if I didn't tell you what I know. I would be no better than my friends that tell little lies for her when she is stalking me. They need to know that it does no good to lie and say that she didn't tell them something anyway. We have the transcripts and recorded calls. What I don't understand is why all the secrecy. She DOES NOT NOW NOR HAS SHE EVER WORKED FOR THE PSPD. Ask Bryan Anderson, he knows she's never worked there. I, on the other hand, signed up, in person, at the police department, with my boyfriend to do this informant work. I know I'm not delusional. Christopher and I were together on this and we have signed paperwork with Bryan Anderson. So this isn't a mistaken lie she makes people believe, I actually know she doesn't work there. Period.
When she tells you a lie or talks to you, it is for a reason. She wants you to do something for her that hurts me. If you do it, she knows because she listens to me...then she thinks of you as "her bestest friend ever." Anyone that says shit like that to someone they just barely know is psycho.
Now we can prove that it was Lori Jean LaFond that gave me HIV and we will prove that she implanted me and stalked me. Many others too. People need to realize the severity of lying for Lori though. She is so full of lies and stories. FYI, she also admits in the restraining order that she doesn't know any other cop but Bryan Anderson, does that jibe with what she's told all of you? She says she worked for the City of La Quinta, but there is the chance that there is another Lori LaFond in her family...not a sister but a sister in law perhaps? Lori used her too. She also says that her sister Jackie, called my best friend to ask if some message I left as an informant for the police was really me. Is that true? See....she's a fucking liar psychopath.
Ask her mother if she's ever worked for the City of La Quinta, I'm sure she will roll her eyes and say something like, "She's not even capable of working in an environment like that." I can't believe that people are so gullible.
She's a bulldozing stalker...but if she tries to rape me again, she will be stopped for good.
So before someone else believes another one of her lies and confronts me about her, think of this. Wouldn't you rather be told the truth about her before she kills again? You would be furious with me if I didn't tell you and I know because Bessie Smith didn't tell me or my sister about my brother in law being harassed by Lori before he died. It isn't a good situation to be in. You should consider yourselves very fortunate that I've said something to you here before she comes after your family like she has mine.
If I don't say anything people lose their lives...if I do, then people can be forewarned. It's that simple. Anyone that would keep this all quiet is committing a crime against innocent lives.
