More Factoids For Those Of Us That HAVE TO DEAL With Lori LaFond, For Now

 

Lori's view of herself is much like this picture.  Take away the wigs and all that makeup on her elbows, and Lori's basically what you see looking in the mirror!

What is the most interesting fact you know about narcissists?

Originally Answered: What are some mind-blowing facts about a narcissist?

1. They like to sleep alot,
2. They don’t feel the need to help their partner with house chores because it’s below them,
3. They will do anything to impress their friends, but not their partner- just in the beginning,
4. They lie all the time,
5. They like pets, but don’t want to take care of them,
6. They like children, but they can’t be with them for a longer period of time cause they get annoyed by the children’s cries,
7. They spend their money like it’s their last day on earth,
8. They will manipulate you and do whatever it takes to get what they want,
9. They don’t feel the need to take care of their aging parents,
10. They won’t give you a xmas or birthday gift,
11. They delete their browser history and hide their texts and calls,
12. They have lots of energy for the things they like, but for anything else, they are always tired,
13. They are not concerned about their hygiene nor the cleanness of their home, but it’s important for them to have clean nice clothes (branded) for showing off,
14. They secretly like SM, porn and sex toys,
15. They don’t like many things in this world and they feel often empty inside,
16. When they’re bored, they argue with you,
17. They are never wrong,
18. Everybody is special and unique to them, but not their significant other (Although that’s not how they truly feel. Nobody’s special or unique for them. They just act that way to devalue their partner),
19. They don’t like crowds, celebrations nor family gatherings, especially the ones that would make you very happy,
20. You will never see a narc “truly” jump for joy or be happy for someone else’s achievents,
21. They rarely read books, only Internet articles,
22. They watch tv/shows, on computer or phone way too much,
23. They are most likely addicts of some kind (drugs, alcohol, gambling, gaming, sex),
24. They remember only what they like, what they don’t like they discard like it never happened or twist it to their liking,
25. They enjoy controling people and objects around them, the remote control, phone, computer, etc., when the tv will be on/off, when you can/cannot turn on the light in the room,when the music will play in the house etc.,
26. After years in a relationship, their partner will feel like he/she is going insane, or give up on everything.
27. They secretly know what/ who they are and like to abuse others in so many ways it’s crazy,
28. They will argue with you over one dirty plate,
29. If they could sell you and get good money for you, they would do that in a split second,
30. Going no contact is the best way to get rid of the narc,
31. Gaslighting is always a trait,
32. Deflecting is also a trait, always,
33. It’s always about them, even if you think is not,
34. They only do things if they see a benefit in it for them,
35. They will leteraly fall asleep like a baby when you are sad or crying besides him (after a fierce fight that will upset you),
36. Often, the other day they will act like nothing happened the previous day (when you had a fight) and say that you are too sensitive,
37. When you are in pain or hurt, they won’t be by your side and be supporting. Sometimes they will ridicule your pain and laugh at you. Most narcs also feel joy when you’re sad or hurt cause it’s easier to control you that way,
38. They are always plotting something behind your back,
39. In one moment they will praise you and shower with affection, and in an other they call you stupid, a waste, insane, a bit*h etc.,
40. They will make up achievements to make other people believe they’re something they’re not,
41. They will make up their sad life story or an illness so they could manipulate you easier or gain simpathy from others, all so they could get what they want,
42. The silent treatments for hours, days and weeks (with or without reason),
43. They will make you feel nervous and unwell in their presence, always walking on eggshells so you don’t trigger them,
44. The constant rages, yelling, arguing in the house and in public,
45. They hate to kiss and hold hands with their partner after some time. The same is with sex. After a few years your sex life is non-existing,
46. They will devalue you as a person and won’t respect your boundries, not to mention neglecting all your wishes, needs, desires, plans and agreements with them,
47. They will avoid talking about the problems in your relationship and your feelings. They act like nothing’s wrong and they’re perfect. And you’re the core problem of everything,
48. If you break up, it will always be your fault,
49. They have dark secrets,
50. They lead a double life you know nothing about,
51. They are so mentally disturbed, they will try to drive you insane till the point of committing suicide,
52. Never think “they would not do that to me”. Cause they will.

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