You can tell from this picture that even the Eiffel Tower gets excited when Lori is in Paris, France. You would think that Lori LaFond was the most beautiful and popular woman in the universe if you just would listen to her side of the story. I can't. I just can't.
When someone has a mental illness, there are a variety of ways that they behave in public, in private and in different situations. How they handle these interpersonal reactions with others is kind of the basis for the developing diagnosis of Lori's problems. I am not a psychiatrist or psychologist, but I have my own life long observations of the things that Lori has done in person, from a distance, on the internet and in the privacy of her own home. I've had friends that went inside her "house of horrors" and know just exactly what she is like and I know that most of you will be surprised that anyone could get to 52 years old and still escape a mental facility or a prison...or even a grave. Lori's survival techniques require a ton of lawbreaking and drugs...police support didn't hurt either. When all your "perceived problems" can be arrested with a phone call, then you begin, like Lori does, to think your shit doesn't...well...stink. Trust me, Lori does stink.
Right now Lori is sitting in a room where she and her five friends live, looking at pictures of my friends and their families, and somehow, the pictures are talking to her. I know that sounds strange, but Lori has this thing about looking at pictures of other people's families and making up stories about them. Unfortunately, Lori has stolen these pictures and her depiction of these real people, in her fantasies, turns real in Lori's mind. She can literally look at a picture and tell you a whole story about someone that she's never met. Maybe some people call that a creative imagination, but when her stories become felonious, way too many people have gone to jail or court fighting against the fantasy that Lori made up. Nobody did anything like Lori said they did, but police, for way too long, have taken her word as gospel. That shouldn't happen over the phone or anonymously.
Bits and pieces of information about these people filter in through the victims' minds and all of a sudden, Lori thinks she's the expert on everyone and everything. Half the time, she doesn't even know who the person in the picture is. She may know about my Aunt Mary, but then she has a picture she's stolen from me and it's a friend from college, not my Aunt Mary. Lori likes to fantasize sexually about everyone. She loves to put broken pieces of a puzzle together in her mind with mental glue and a mental hammer to make them fit. They don't, of course, and Lori ends up telling a new story.
For example. Lori went around for years before and after my brother in law's death telling people that she and my sister, "Were practically family." To make that work, she set up a murder to remove my sister's husband and try to force some unrealistic relationship between her uncle and my sister. Forget the lost life, Lori wanted to tell people a story about how she was related to me and my family, no matter what it cost. I find that to be way more than just a fantasy, I think it's murder.
If what Lori was telling everyone was true, then why, after my brother in law was killed in self-defense, didn't my sister get with her uncle? The problem was that Lori dreamed up a situation and told everyone it was true. There was and is a friendship there, but both have been married to other people since. Lori got rid of my sister's second husband by making up more lies of a similar nature. Also, not true and also just to cause a problem for her. Lori has this thing about people being happy. She hates it. She's gone so far for so long that she can't seem to distinguish between reality and forced fantasies.
It is ridiculous that Lori would tell my boyfriend that she and I were once involved in any way. The involvement between the two of us was limited to her ambushing me in front of the whole school and Lori looking like a jerk for doing it. She's told stories about how she and I were "best friends" or "dating" because she stole things like my class ring from me, my Letterman's jacket, high school basketball uniform, and, of course, pictures. You will notice that Lori is not in one single solitary picture with me. That's because I am nothing like she tells people. We aren't now and never were friends and I would never take a picture with her in it as long as I'm alive.
She, however, has taken pictures of me...while I was being raped.
I think that most people need to realize that Lori LaFond is always trying to be someone that she isn't. She doesn't understand family dynamics, but she is desperate to call herself someone's "family" or "sister" or "loved one". That isn't just someone that walks into your life, disrupts everyone, then thinks she is "in charge" of a family that has no idea who she is and doesn't care. Lori wants people to fear her, does that sound like family to you? I know that Missy Erickson's sister would never consider Lori LaFond a member of her family. She should never let that whole fantasy exist either. Lori is a member of her own family and they don't appear to like her very much.
Time, good relationships, positivity, love, respect, admiration, and kindness are what join outside members into another family, not hate, jail, theft, disease, and how much trouble you can cause. Lori has never understood why people don't like her, but it is really easy not to. She's a loudmouth, know everything, sex addicted, masochist, liar...nobody ever believes her except a cop on the phone. Above all else, she tries to befamily (like "befriend"), people whose loved one she infected with a disease and put in jail. If you love your family members and they are a victim of this crime, try understanding them and support breaking off of the relationship between Lori and your loved one. Lori will hurt them if you don't get them away from her. She isn't meant to live near or with other people.
I support a stealthy removal of your loved one from this cult of bad personality...sort of like when they break kids away from a cult. Seriously, the less Missy Erickson knows about her extraction from that home, the easier it will be to take her out of that bad situation.
