You know, I'm sort of the expert when it comes to the deciding the characteristics of a true Total Psycho Bitch From Hell. I should be, Lori LaFond has been my stalker bully since I was about 11 years old. I can tell you that there are others, but nobody really embodies the qualities of a true psycho bitch quite like Lori LaFond, so let's get into it, shall we?
First, there are some qualities that many TPBFH have. The first is some kind of imaginary relationship with their target. Lori calls me "target practice", a gun reference that is supposed to make me recall the time that she had her brother shoot at me in San Diego or perhaps the time that she sent my brother in law to his own death by shooting. Either way that's a little extra that she throws in to sparkle up that face of hers. Ewwww! You see a true psycho bitch loves to get inside your head and let you think that she could kill you at any given moment.
Now, I have heard from more than one witness that Lori has a story about how the two of us had some kind of "relationship" in high school. Get out your scorecards because this one ranks way up there near the top.
Here's the tea.
I've never had a conversation with this individual in my entire life. Ever. I've never spoken with her and I've never had any kind of relationship with her outside of bully/victim. Lori has a foul mouth that she likes to use to get attention. In high school, after one of her verbally abusive moments, I can remember asking someone, "Who was that?" I honestly didn't know who she was and we didn't go to a very big high school...maybe a hundred and fifty kids in my graduating class. For me not to know who she was and for her to come up to me on the first day of school screaming my name and calling me a "flaming faggot" that everyone knows...adds ten full points to her TPBFH scorecard. That kind of shit is truly crazy. Imagine some stranger walking up to you and doing this...what would you think?
For a reference, I will tell you that my father had been acquitted of molesting a male student, a neighbor of Lori's, about a week or two earlier. Homosexuality wasn't something I was really thinking about at that time. So here was this female person screaming at me on my first day of high school within minutes of my feet touching the campus. My opinion is that it was some kind of ambush that she orchestrated while watching for me to arrive with my dad.
Remember too that her brother was not in school with me either. I was told that she was an only child. Lori liked telling everyone that she was the only child in her family.
Later I would hear from other witnesses that I had been sexually active with her brother. How? I didn't even know she had a brother and when I did finally see him it wasn't someone that I would be attracted to. Lori tends to make up relationships in her mind then try to make them real in person. I will never say that we had any kind of a "relationship" because that would not be true. Her best friend, Julie, will also tell you that she and I were never friends. Nothing like that ever existed.
To make my point I will say this. Jonathan has had more in-person conversations with her than I ever had. Anthony and Christopher have spoken to her more times than I ever had. If she is going to call what she was with me a relationship, then she must have had relationships with all of my friends. I've never sought her out for a conversation and have never spoken to her beyond, "What the fuck is wrong with you?" Is that a relationship? It's not in my book either.
So any of you out there that have heard that we were friends, boyfriend/girlfriend, fiancees or anything like that, you have been duped. We are not friends and never will be. Also, her brother is not someone that is friendly with any of my friends either, so Lori knowing about my gay life isn't a factor that includes her brother. What she is doing here is making that shit up from spying on me.
Spying, that's the second factor in her TPBFH. Who in the universe spends her whole life trying to get to know EVERYONE THAT I AM FRIENDS WITH? There are books full of information about my friends that she thinks are friends of hers? For example, my college girlfriend got married and Lori contacted her Maid of Honor to break into my bedroom and look for drugs, to move next door to my boyfriend and me in San Diego and to confront me at this beautiful girl's wedding. That is TPBFH material, isn't it? Lori did this with my female roommate, my then girlfriend and many other employees where I once bartended. Lori called my fraternity brothers and outed me then proceeded for the next twenty years to try to get in contact with them. Is that psycho enough? There's more. She had her brother contact my neighbors in my apartment complex and had him steal my pickup truck to go joyriding in it then crashed it in Riverside. My college books were in that truck but ended up in Lori's possession to prove that.
She stole my car license plate with my name "KEV BOND" on it from an apartment complex in Riverside in 1987 and other things like my pledge manual for my fraternity. She then used my pledge manual to call members of my fraternity using my fraternity composite that was also stolen out of my car. She did the same thing with my ten-year high school reunion photo two times. I never have seen that photo...yikes.
She has told people that she hates me because I'm "too nice to people". Is that a crime? Who says that? This is one thing that she will never have to deal with because she is never nice. If she is, it's an act. There isn't a kind bone in her whole body. There isn't any sense of morality or gentleness...she's got one speed, Bulldozer!!!
The third fact, she tells people that she was "practically family" with the members of my brood. There isn't one bit of truth to that either. Lori sold my brother in law drugs and it became a problem. When she found out she was getting on my sister's nerves for doing it, she amped up the contact with him. That ended in his death that Lori orchestrated by lighting a fuse with her uncle and my brother in law and making it explode at her aunt's home. In court papers, Lori says she doesn't know a thing about me since high school, but she left out this whole event. An event that she calls "practically family". Lori is in no way close to my father, mother, sister or any of the offspring. She's not telling the truth. What she did there was convenient so as not to cause anyone to look into what her involvement was in that horrible tragedy.
When I was in a loving and caring relationship with a Navy Lieutenant, Lori took it upon herself to write him while he was overseas. I've heard it was threatening him for being gay and that it was written on her father's military letterhead. She told him I was HIV positive, he and I practiced safe sex if we ever had any and that I lied to him all the time. That wasn't true at all.
In addition to writing him letters asking him to meet her, she sent my former girlfriend, the one that got married above, over to our home so that when I got home from work I walked in to my former girlfriend talking on the couch with my current boyfriend...um...not the first time either. Lori has this thing about making my worlds collide, but it never turns out the way she thinks it will. Of course, my boyfriend got along with my former girlfriend, I date the nicest people, not two-bit hags like her.
Then there was the shooting after years and years of being stalked by people that looked kind of like Neo from the Matrix movies. You know dark sunglasses, expressionless...nosey. They were so prevalent in my life that I began writing diaries about the experience. They went everywhere I went and took pictures of me, allegedly, that ended up in Lori's possession. Then she had her brother break into my apartment, flood it, make loud sex noises while I was at work and he stole his first yearbook of mine. A red one that would have meant Lori was a sophomore, her favorite year. To bolster my claim that we were not friends, Lori stole this so she could find out who my friends were back then. She quotes from it to them when she talks about me too...it's strange.
In Lori's world, only your friends write in your yearbook. Now if you are like me, you don't even know who signed it. It would go from person to person and whoever got ahold of it, wrote in it. I never even looked at those. I guess I may have read one once but it wasn't an issue for me and certainly not everyone that I am friendly with signed it.
I believe that she thinks that someone would have mentioned her in my yearbook, but my friends all knew that she was a bully and that I never spoke of her. I'm one of those people that had a lot going on all the time back then. Lori wasn't a footnote in my life but I will tell you that I knew she was crazy and violent and I avoided her, wouldn't you. She confronted me at school, a party and had other druggie boys confront me at basketball games while I was on the floor playing. This is how crazy she really is. Palm Springs, years later, turned into that kind of experience too. She would have Missy tell her where I was, then Lori would send over some of her street urchins, like David is now, to say something horrible to me while I was hanging out with friends.
To bolster my claim that Lori is a true TPBFH, there is the theft of everything I once owned. First, who does that but a thief? Second, what she does with those things is a complete bullshit act. She came to my home when I wasn't there and broke into my room stealing all of my work clothes which she wore, "Las Palmas Hotel" is a gay men's hotel. There is no way she worked there because the entire staff was gay men. She stole my high school basketball uniform and high school ring. She tells people that I gave them to her but the truth is that they were in my closet and she took them when I was gone.
My deceased brother in law told me that Lori would contact my sister or him when I was partying in high school. I don't know how she would know this? She certainly was never around me and none of her friends was there either. All of a sudden this bully from high school is contacting my sister about what I was doing or allegedly doing. How? Not possible unless she was using this technology to listen to my life.
Then we get to the infamous rape of 2007 when she and her brother broke into the home I was asleep in and crushed my skull then put infected refrigerated blood in my anus so that I would get all kinds of STD's. What it did do was tell me that the rapist refrigerates her blood, breaks into homes, beats gay men senseless and then uses her blood like ejaculate...you can't imagine how that feels after growing up with her acting like she was the biggest homophobe in the universe. On the one hand, she's screaming to everyone that I'm a faggot, then she's loading my ass up with infected blood while I'm laying there dying. Come on folks this one gives her the bonus points for Head TPBFH doesn't it? But then there is more...
Then she follows me on vacation to Sedona, Arizona with a gun and friends to do something else. This is a six-hour drive from where we live. She had to do so much planning to get herself into a position, then she contacted both men that I was there with and talked about me again....come on...you get the gold star when you are this crazy!!!
Then, she files a restraining order for "workplace violence" against me and I don't even have the tiniest clue as to where she lives or works. How can that be? The last person on Earth I would want to know is Lori LaFond, caring about her work is also last on my list to make the list of things I don't care about. You have got to be kidding me with this shit. I'm the least obsessed with this female monster than anything in my life. I would rather be anywhere but near her. I would rather be on the opposite side of the planet from wherever she is. Seriously. If she's in one place, I want to be 180 degrees away from her somewhere else. I'm being serious.
How does a guy get attention for a female stalker like this? I've tried. It doesn't work. I've done everything I can think of. I was ready to move too but her friends stole my money to keep her near me. Awful.
There are about a million other examples I can give you but I want everyone to know that if you listen to the "Beekeeper" video, you will hear all the crazy you need to hear. Remember, I've never spoken to her in person in my life. The things she's telling police are simply a figment of her imagination and way way beyond. I wouldn't let my friends go near her and I certainly have no reason to ever want to see or hear from her again.
Yet, she was mastubating herself with hot dogs when she met Christopher....come on people this isn't a normal girl. She's tilted all the way to serial killer. No thanks.
For a reference, I will tell you that my father had been acquitted of molesting a male student, a neighbor of Lori's, about a week or two earlier. Homosexuality wasn't something I was really thinking about at that time. So here was this female person screaming at me on my first day of high school within minutes of my feet touching the campus. My opinion is that it was some kind of ambush that she orchestrated while watching for me to arrive with my dad.
Remember too that her brother was not in school with me either. I was told that she was an only child. Lori liked telling everyone that she was the only child in her family.
Later I would hear from other witnesses that I had been sexually active with her brother. How? I didn't even know she had a brother and when I did finally see him it wasn't someone that I would be attracted to. Lori tends to make up relationships in her mind then try to make them real in person. I will never say that we had any kind of a "relationship" because that would not be true. Her best friend, Julie, will also tell you that she and I were never friends. Nothing like that ever existed.
To make my point I will say this. Jonathan has had more in-person conversations with her than I ever had. Anthony and Christopher have spoken to her more times than I ever had. If she is going to call what she was with me a relationship, then she must have had relationships with all of my friends. I've never sought her out for a conversation and have never spoken to her beyond, "What the fuck is wrong with you?" Is that a relationship? It's not in my book either.
So any of you out there that have heard that we were friends, boyfriend/girlfriend, fiancees or anything like that, you have been duped. We are not friends and never will be. Also, her brother is not someone that is friendly with any of my friends either, so Lori knowing about my gay life isn't a factor that includes her brother. What she is doing here is making that shit up from spying on me.
Spying, that's the second factor in her TPBFH. Who in the universe spends her whole life trying to get to know EVERYONE THAT I AM FRIENDS WITH? There are books full of information about my friends that she thinks are friends of hers? For example, my college girlfriend got married and Lori contacted her Maid of Honor to break into my bedroom and look for drugs, to move next door to my boyfriend and me in San Diego and to confront me at this beautiful girl's wedding. That is TPBFH material, isn't it? Lori did this with my female roommate, my then girlfriend and many other employees where I once bartended. Lori called my fraternity brothers and outed me then proceeded for the next twenty years to try to get in contact with them. Is that psycho enough? There's more. She had her brother contact my neighbors in my apartment complex and had him steal my pickup truck to go joyriding in it then crashed it in Riverside. My college books were in that truck but ended up in Lori's possession to prove that.
She stole my car license plate with my name "KEV BOND" on it from an apartment complex in Riverside in 1987 and other things like my pledge manual for my fraternity. She then used my pledge manual to call members of my fraternity using my fraternity composite that was also stolen out of my car. She did the same thing with my ten-year high school reunion photo two times. I never have seen that photo...yikes.
She has told people that she hates me because I'm "too nice to people". Is that a crime? Who says that? This is one thing that she will never have to deal with because she is never nice. If she is, it's an act. There isn't a kind bone in her whole body. There isn't any sense of morality or gentleness...she's got one speed, Bulldozer!!!
The third fact, she tells people that she was "practically family" with the members of my brood. There isn't one bit of truth to that either. Lori sold my brother in law drugs and it became a problem. When she found out she was getting on my sister's nerves for doing it, she amped up the contact with him. That ended in his death that Lori orchestrated by lighting a fuse with her uncle and my brother in law and making it explode at her aunt's home. In court papers, Lori says she doesn't know a thing about me since high school, but she left out this whole event. An event that she calls "practically family". Lori is in no way close to my father, mother, sister or any of the offspring. She's not telling the truth. What she did there was convenient so as not to cause anyone to look into what her involvement was in that horrible tragedy.
When I was in a loving and caring relationship with a Navy Lieutenant, Lori took it upon herself to write him while he was overseas. I've heard it was threatening him for being gay and that it was written on her father's military letterhead. She told him I was HIV positive, he and I practiced safe sex if we ever had any and that I lied to him all the time. That wasn't true at all.
In addition to writing him letters asking him to meet her, she sent my former girlfriend, the one that got married above, over to our home so that when I got home from work I walked in to my former girlfriend talking on the couch with my current boyfriend...um...not the first time either. Lori has this thing about making my worlds collide, but it never turns out the way she thinks it will. Of course, my boyfriend got along with my former girlfriend, I date the nicest people, not two-bit hags like her.
Then there was the shooting after years and years of being stalked by people that looked kind of like Neo from the Matrix movies. You know dark sunglasses, expressionless...nosey. They were so prevalent in my life that I began writing diaries about the experience. They went everywhere I went and took pictures of me, allegedly, that ended up in Lori's possession. Then she had her brother break into my apartment, flood it, make loud sex noises while I was at work and he stole his first yearbook of mine. A red one that would have meant Lori was a sophomore, her favorite year. To bolster my claim that we were not friends, Lori stole this so she could find out who my friends were back then. She quotes from it to them when she talks about me too...it's strange.
In Lori's world, only your friends write in your yearbook. Now if you are like me, you don't even know who signed it. It would go from person to person and whoever got ahold of it, wrote in it. I never even looked at those. I guess I may have read one once but it wasn't an issue for me and certainly not everyone that I am friendly with signed it.
I believe that she thinks that someone would have mentioned her in my yearbook, but my friends all knew that she was a bully and that I never spoke of her. I'm one of those people that had a lot going on all the time back then. Lori wasn't a footnote in my life but I will tell you that I knew she was crazy and violent and I avoided her, wouldn't you. She confronted me at school, a party and had other druggie boys confront me at basketball games while I was on the floor playing. This is how crazy she really is. Palm Springs, years later, turned into that kind of experience too. She would have Missy tell her where I was, then Lori would send over some of her street urchins, like David is now, to say something horrible to me while I was hanging out with friends.
To bolster my claim that Lori is a true TPBFH, there is the theft of everything I once owned. First, who does that but a thief? Second, what she does with those things is a complete bullshit act. She came to my home when I wasn't there and broke into my room stealing all of my work clothes which she wore, "Las Palmas Hotel" is a gay men's hotel. There is no way she worked there because the entire staff was gay men. She stole my high school basketball uniform and high school ring. She tells people that I gave them to her but the truth is that they were in my closet and she took them when I was gone.
My deceased brother in law told me that Lori would contact my sister or him when I was partying in high school. I don't know how she would know this? She certainly was never around me and none of her friends was there either. All of a sudden this bully from high school is contacting my sister about what I was doing or allegedly doing. How? Not possible unless she was using this technology to listen to my life.
Then we get to the infamous rape of 2007 when she and her brother broke into the home I was asleep in and crushed my skull then put infected refrigerated blood in my anus so that I would get all kinds of STD's. What it did do was tell me that the rapist refrigerates her blood, breaks into homes, beats gay men senseless and then uses her blood like ejaculate...you can't imagine how that feels after growing up with her acting like she was the biggest homophobe in the universe. On the one hand, she's screaming to everyone that I'm a faggot, then she's loading my ass up with infected blood while I'm laying there dying. Come on folks this one gives her the bonus points for Head TPBFH doesn't it? But then there is more...
Then she follows me on vacation to Sedona, Arizona with a gun and friends to do something else. This is a six-hour drive from where we live. She had to do so much planning to get herself into a position, then she contacted both men that I was there with and talked about me again....come on...you get the gold star when you are this crazy!!!
Then, she files a restraining order for "workplace violence" against me and I don't even have the tiniest clue as to where she lives or works. How can that be? The last person on Earth I would want to know is Lori LaFond, caring about her work is also last on my list to make the list of things I don't care about. You have got to be kidding me with this shit. I'm the least obsessed with this female monster than anything in my life. I would rather be anywhere but near her. I would rather be on the opposite side of the planet from wherever she is. Seriously. If she's in one place, I want to be 180 degrees away from her somewhere else. I'm being serious.
How does a guy get attention for a female stalker like this? I've tried. It doesn't work. I've done everything I can think of. I was ready to move too but her friends stole my money to keep her near me. Awful.
There are about a million other examples I can give you but I want everyone to know that if you listen to the "Beekeeper" video, you will hear all the crazy you need to hear. Remember, I've never spoken to her in person in my life. The things she's telling police are simply a figment of her imagination and way way beyond. I wouldn't let my friends go near her and I certainly have no reason to ever want to see or hear from her again.
Yet, she was mastubating herself with hot dogs when she met Christopher....come on people this isn't a normal girl. She's tilted all the way to serial killer. No thanks.
