To my friends from high school, it wasn't obvious that I hated being there because of Lori LaFond. Oh, they all saw when she would verbally assault me with her friend Julie standing right next to her. They saw the boys that Lori sold drugs for violence to. They were aware that James Jones had, all of a sudden, without incident, tried to make my last year of school miserable, but they didn't know how much what she did to me and my family affected my life.
I simply let it go after I graduated and wrote it off as a really bad high school experience. What they didn't know was how crazy this girl really was and if they knew what she did to some of them, they might understand now just how violent she is and how obsessed she has become. Soon she would start writing me in college at my dorm and sending the same boy over to my college apartment to harass me (he didn't but may have stolen some things while he was there).
I've only seen Lori LaFond friendly towards one person, though on this system she seems to be very jealous of her. Her name is Julie. Every time, but one, Julie was right by Lori's side when she would verbally abuse me. When Lori went to Sedona, nearly thirty years later, guess who she brought with her. Yes, it was Julie again. The next time I would see Lori was at a friend's father's memorial and again, Julie was there. I gave her my seat so she could sit while I stood. It seems that Lori always has to have this person around her when she is trying to have her high school fantasy happen again. All the way from where I live to Sedona...that's six hours or more just to have her fantasy happen. It's strange how Lori acts. I guess she needs to feel like she did when she was fifteen. Others say that she is obsessed with her sophomore year in high school. I can tell you, I did not share the same experience with high school that Lori did. At least in her mind, she thinks she was some kind of hot shot. She wasn't. I've heard that she was obsessed with popularity. I was popular but that wasn't a good thing. Lori tried to ruin that as often as she could. I would rather have not been popular at all.
Here's the thing with bully girls. As a guy, you can't hit them, like they probably deserve, you have to "be a guy about it" and not say anything. If you do, then you look like you can't handle a girl abusing you. If you strike out, then you have committed an act of violence against a girl...not gonna happen. So, in short, as a kid you learn about not standing up for yourself. You are suppose to tell a parent or a school administrator, I never did. I didn't even talk to my friends about what she did to me right in front of them. Why? To make a big deal about it would have given it power and I wasn't about to do that. I simply learned to adjust my life so I didn't have to see her. For the most part that worked. She would only know about my basketball schedule, so she would send her drug addict boys in to try to threaten me during games or before.
As an adult, you are suppose to be able to tell the police about someone harassing you. I got raped and my skull knocked in and nobody from that police department did anything to stop her. She's apparently been doing this to men so often that she knows she will get away with it claiming to be a "poor defenseless woman." That is such bullshit. We're the ones with injuries and bullet holes and she gets to be the "poor defenseless one" . Bullshit. She instigates a fight, in her MIND, then makes you her enemy, in her MIND, then she retaliates for something that you've never done. Hell, half of these victims have never even seen her before, but now they have HIV and criminal records because of her.
How do you explain to Police Chief Reyes, that this freak girl is obsessed with the fantasies in her mind. Look at her restraining order and you see her say, "I haven't known anything about him since high school" but then listen to the audio from the day she had the police put a spit hood on me after detaining me for a whole weekend. You'd think that she and I knew each other intimately. That's a fucking lie. What the police heard was her "fantasy", what they did was illegal. If you want to know what Lori thinks about me in her mind, listen to what she has to say in that audio performance...it will shock you. All those cops that arrested me, including Kelly Fieux, should read what she has to say in that restraining order...see if that jibes with what she told you before you interviewed me for the rape that was real and had real life injuries. It wasn't taken seriously because of her constant rant and rave about what a bad person I am. You don't see me with any criminal record until I moved to Palm Springs...and most of that is false arrests.
According to Lori LaFond, she doesn't know one single police officer outside of Bryan Anderson...that is a quote. How many of those cops know that we have proof that she does? We can easily show a relationship between police files and Lori's emails. We can show that she is hacking the City of Palm Springs email system. She not only knows these cops, she pretends to be them on the phone and in emails.
What I am not going to do again is allow her to play the victim where I am concerned. I've had attempts on my life and I'm saying who is responsible for them I have that right as a victim whether our police do anything or not. I don't want any other gay kid having to deal with her ever again. Nobody. Let her homophobic hate turn on herself. Her friend Missy loves to get her started too. She pokes and prods at her until she goes and does something stupid. This, Missy thinks, protects her. What it is, is more of these two feeding off of each other. If Lori is mean to me, in Lori's mind, Missy will love me. In Missy's mind, if she can point Lori at my family, Lori will leave her alone. It is a super co-dependent relationship with homicidal overtones. People have died because Lori wants "female sex" with Missy. In return, Missy is fine with the violence, but not the "post murder sex". It must frustrate Lori to no end.
I refuse to compensate my bully. I'm not about to let her continue to steal from me, hurt family members of mine and tell everyone how horrible I AM TO HER. For more than twenty years she had everything her way...she took belongings, boyfriend, apartments and my career away with lies. Now, it is time to point out who was behind it. According to Jonathan Mendenhall, it was Lori Jean LaFond.
