One thing that I have learned is that "satisfying Lori" only makes you a bigger victim of her crimes. If you truly want your freedom from her, you have to challenge and out perform her. You would think that to be impressive, but I expect more out of my self than outwitting, outlasting and outplaying a loser tweeker. I sympathize with all drug addicts, I am one, in recovery for a long time now, but Lori is a drug pusher, not a drug dealer and her addiction isn't something that she thinks is real.
To outwit Lori is to be reasonable. If you want to outwit at nit wit, you have only to look at what you are dealing with, understand it and plan accordingly. My task was chilling when you think that this is a crime about mind reading. My thoughts were known by the criminal herself. How do you outwit someone that knows your thoughts? You simply act reasonable. Reasonable people don't make mistakes and when they do, they make them for a rational decision. Every decision of Lori's is irrational and based in a world where the law doesn't apply to her. You have to be intelligent and you have to rely on your friends. It all works together. I have an amazing group of friends that know how I think. When I suggest something, it isn't a normal suggestion. I go to a thought and let them work out the rest. They know what I think is important and I trust them to emphasize it with research and facts.
Outwitting a meth addict is simple really. They fear everything and are suspicious of every single word. I know how to play that game better than Lori does. In fact, it is a huge weapon in my arsenal of thoughts.
The other part of the outwitting was involving the parents of my friends. I knew that if I came out and said, "This is what is happening," that they would finally have a true picture of what was going on with their "previously not criminal" son. You see, most of us don't "break bad" half way through our lives. Most of my friends had never been arrested in their lives, myself included. It was only the introduction of Lori into our lives when this started to happen. When parents have a better understanding of what really happened, they can protect their sons and accept a more plausible explanation. This was a key element in making my move to stop Lori and her system.
Consequently, Lori did what she always does, she began to threaten the parents of the victims...bad idea on her part. She went from "someone that knows a secret about YOUR son" on the phone to the person that did this to them and is guilty of spying on them. You see, most of our parents have never heard of Lori because she isn't a friend. Her parents, on the other hand, have likely heard all about us as a topic of her constant stalking. Now our parents know who this unknown tattletale girl was that kept calling and telling them things about our personal lives that weren't true. You see the question in their minds wasn't just, "What's wrong with Johnny...", there was a second part that was even more intriguing, "...and who the fuck is this girl that keeps telling us stuff." I sought to answer that question.
Johnny is the victim of electronic harassment and this girls is the person responsible for doing it. Quite simply, Lori played right into my hand when she allegedly posted obituaries in papers for people that weren't dead. She and Missy did exactly what I wanted them to do when they started calling parents and throwing around Jeffrey Katzenberg's name. I wanted them both to understand something. Our parents love US, not you. We may be men, but we aren't stupid men.
You see Lori loves playing the "concerned citizen" but the concern that citizens should have is about her. She doesn't pay taxes or have a job. She spies on people that she has targeted to experiment on. She identifies herself every single time she tries to contact a parent or a sister thinking that she is so convincing. She isn't. Our sisters know us better than almost anyone. What I did was fulfill the need for a better explanation of her role and Missy's. Parents needed to know what Missy and Lori do to discredit us. I offered a much more palatable explanation. You see, my friends are bad people, they are good people made to look bad. There is a big difference.
Outlasting is different. Have you ever tried to stay awake when someone else is on meth? If you haven't it's alot like trying to sleep with an insomniac. The less sleep they get, the more crazy they are and the more tired you get. Lori does more meth than a Mexican prison population on a daily basis. Trying to outlast her isn't an option for people like me that work a real job. Sleep becomes imperative. Our brains are constantly hearing a conversation we don't want to have...so they tire. So what I've done is flip the problem. If Lori isn't going to sleep, she's going to have more problems to deal with than 24 hours can provide time to fix. Give her the most incredible problems and she won't be able to cope. She's tired, she's sick and we have the numbers.
I also suggest Monster Energy drinks...they give you a boost and come in so many terrific flavors. If you have to work and can't sleep Lori away, try one!
The outplay is the easiest one for me. Lori thinks that she has developed psychological games that nobody can match, but she too is hooked up into this situation. If she is questioned about a shooting she was involved with, she can't keep her mind from thinking about it. All of her mind tricks are based on having a victim come up with his or her own fear. If you can tell her what you don't want her to do to you, you can bet it will be the first thing she tries especially if it involves drugs, sex or a relationship. If you can accent your game against her using one of those, you will win every single time.
For example, if Lori is challenging you to do something...tell her you are going on grindr or craigslist...immediately she will go into sex mode. Once she is there you can play a game with her. She's easy. If you have a friend that wants to pretend to be someone and have a conversation with him, Lori will be intrigued all night long trying to fuck that up. Talk about Missy's tits...that always sidetracks her.
The conversations that Lori loves the most are "can you believe I did this to you." How smart is that? This system records her conversations with me and we'll be able to show you exactly what she has admitted to. She isn't coerced, she volunteers that kind of information as a "punishment" and as a "statement to other operators" that she is more "powerful" than you are. She wants you to think you "can't stop her." But you can.
You can simply write her name on the baggie of meth or pot you have. You know what it is. If she is stupid enough to call the police on you, tell them that you got it from her. You see, if she doesn't make the call, then she has nothing to worry about, but if she does, she's adding her name to the "distributor" end of the crime.
You see, I have my own mind games that I play with Lori. Mine are way more fun. She likes to tell you your boyfriend is cheating on you...I like to remind her that she is a lesbian without a boyfriend...and always has been. You see there is nothing that she can do that can't be stopped if you work at it.
Taking time off only gives her a chance to phone bomb you to someone she calls. She'll play the innocent victim, but you all can use that restraining order against me from LaQuinta to shut her up. She knows that one isn't good for her. Using a "same name" isn't something the courts like. Use it. As in, "If you threaten me again, I will tell the court that you aren't the person that you said you were..."
Outwit, outlast, outplay...this is the Hunger Games that ate Survivor...may the odds be forever in your favor!!!
Once again, I planned for Lori's system's demise. I didn't try to take it down all at once. I even told her I would involve my friends, but I knew that it was simply seen as a challenge to her "perfect system". She would never believe that a single person without computer access could do this. She didn't count on my friends on the inside to work with me...counter attack from the inside and use your best judgment on the outside. If you are on meth...try to get off of it. If you can't, don't be dumb enough to lead her to other people. I'm all about personal freedoms, I just want you to play the game with me for a while.
You will see that I wrote endlessly about "not continuing to use this system against the likes of me." I told her and her brother that I am NOT THE KIND OF PERSON that likes being spied upon. When you go after my boyfriend, you go after me. Putting Christopher in jail was probably Lori's biggest mistake. I like to point to other things, but when it comes down to it, we have each other's backs. It is a tremendous boost for me to have someone as loving as Christopher in my corner. It makes a huge difference to know he is a fighter...that's what I needed. A fighter to fight for me and my family.
