Have you ever been the most evil villain of a story that you didn't even know you were involved in? This is what it is like when you find out that Laurie has had a fantasy about you. If you are a homosexual male, you have immediately become some kind of ex-boyfriend that "did her wrong". You don't even know this girl and immediately you gave her HIV/AIDS and you were horribly abusive to her and her family, that you have never met. It's the most offensive thing in the world to realize that she's turned you into the villain juxtaposed to her damsel in distress. How can you be the evil guy tying her to the train tracks when you don't even know who she is?
Knowing now that she's made up this whole restraining order saga to go in front of the commissioner that literally railroads electronic harassment victims into prison sentences only bolsters my claims that Laurie is Lisa. She says that I talked to her sister and emailed her family? What!?!?!! That never ever happened. Where in the universe does she come up with these kinds of stories and who in the world is going along with them? I wouldn't know what their email addresses are to email them. Laurie would though. I wouldn't have known whom to call to talk to them. You see she uses her family to create these comical stories about being a victim then tells everyone that it's true. This isn't a case of me wanting to be anywhere near her. I wanted to leave this area since the day I got here. Laurie knew I never wanted to be back in the desert so she took steps while I lived in San Diego to make that happen. She knows that too.
A bullet through a car window one night brought my entire life to a screeching halt in San Diego...and it's been nothing but the Laurie and Brian Show ever since. I've had to learn how to tell this story alone. The hard part was learning to do it without stepping out of line or making the usual mistakes that other victims make. This meant being careful. Getting out of the Coachella Valley. This meant sacrificing my relationship. This meant taking away from Laurie all of the heart breaking tools that she uses to draw you in. You learn to become hard to what she does. You learn to be smarter than you've ever been and when she pulls out the usual bag of tricks, you react different than you did the first time. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work. I've said it before, many times. Laurie is a creature of habit. She knows one way of doing things...repetition. She loops herself over and over again thinking that if it works once, it will work again. You, as the victim or parent, have to plot a different course of emotional and physical reaction to her. If what she said before got you upset, this time let it push you to action. Action is the key to everything with Laurie.
Laurie likes to stifle you with what could be. I think that planning for success is a much better way of dealing with her. Have two or three ways to reach the same goal. If you have to take off one wig, you better have another wig on underneath....thanks Rox. You need to understand that preparation is necessary to win at what Laurie does. You know she's going to baffle you with bullshit, so dazzle her with brilliance. She doesn't like when you look smarter than she does, so set up a smart trap. I did three this morning before I even opened my eyes.
Example Roxxxy Style:
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While some of you are Keeping up with the Fatasshian, the rest of you need to be working on getting my white ass out of this place without Laurie's intervention. This whole situation is a bunch of trained monkeys on a stage keeping your attention and taking away from what we are doing. This is a crime investigation, not "Let's Watch the Psycho". Move forward. So instead of watching Laurie's emotional strip tease, we need to keep pressing for a new idea. Lives are at stake people.
Let's make sure that there are no more villains in stories that they don't know they are a part of. Before she gets another chance to hurt another person we need to get her off that fucking microphone and get her into quarantine.
