Friendships, like family members, don't come with contracts attached to them. This is a concept that is lost on Laurie LaTweeker. I have never really understood her concept of what constitutes a friend of hers...usually it means something like:
Friendship - you do everything for Laurie and she does nothing for you or you have a high potential to steal from in the near future or you know Kevin Bond so I have to do something to you. That's pretty much Laurie's definition of "friendship". Once again, I don't know where she got that from or where the "competition aspect" of her needy-ness stems from, but it is basically built on the foundation of slavery.
Lately it has become important for Laurie to define which friends of mine are hers and which are mine. The key concept there is "which friends of mine"...in other words, she's working on some kind of scheme to contract some of my friends into looking like her friends on paper, but not in reality. I can't really explain where these kinds of ideas of hers come from, I don't really live in that kind of neighborhood. I don't usually define my friendships with a piece of paper and a signature for later use against someone. Call me crazy but friendship is an "obvious" kind of thing that doesn't really need defining.
Laurie's whole life has been trying to undermine the relationships that I have with other people often citing that "_________ would have been my friend if they didn't know him" which is odd for me because they would never have met her if it wasn't for me. The whole concept of friendship "stealing" isn't something that I am familiar with. Does anyone out there have a "child's guide to making friends" that I can borrow? It might be helpful for me to understand what this whole thing is like. I've never told anyone that they can't be Laurie's friend, but it is well understood that if you are, I'm probably not interested in the same kind of friendship with you. Something about befriending the woman that is completely obsessed with hurting me that dulls my need to know you.
I can't tell you how many friends of mine have been approached via personal contact, email, text, phone call or ambush, but there are apparently a lot of them. Jonathan Mendenhall spent much of the last twenty or so years finding them for Laurie and taking them to where she could introduce herself with her vagina leading like some kind of sexual handshake. That whole concept makes me shiver with embarrassment and cringe with repulsion. I would never go out of my way to meet anyone that she knows or considers a friend. It's just not something that I would even consider.
Laurie has always been jealous of my relationship with my sister and my "girl" friends from high school. I dated homecoming queens, princesses, athletes and girls from other schools before I realized that I was gay. That must have really upset her. One such relationship was with Kelly Brandon, the other obsession in Laurie's life. Another was Liz Luke, a gorgeous blonde, that even made me question my sexuality. There have been many. My last high school girlfriend, Nonie Ariate, a homecoming queen, turned out to be a lesbian...which I am sure intrigues Laurie to this very day. What you are seeing here is a pattern of jealous behavior where this stalker intends to "steal my friendships" by somehow making me look bad to these people. Most of them know me so well that this is a joke to them...in fact, I'll say that all of them would feel that way.
Now she's turned to the male relationships in my life. Trying to take away friends that I've known for most of my life to new friendships that I made in San Diego then Palm Springs...I don't know how many men were approached, but it must be a lot. Why they didn't tell me about it probably has to do with something that she lies about or says is true, but isn't. At any rate I'm not really interested in anyone that would betray our friendship because some crazy girl told them something outlandish or hurtful. I'm just not that concerned with anyone that would believe those kinds of statements.
The over sexual introduction to my friends is something of a mystery to me. I don't know how many of you out there would like to be introduced to someone flashing you their vagina, but I would assume it is a lot like a man showing you his penis when someone says, " __________________ this is my friend, (Joe Blow), this is my friend Laurie, and that's her vagina". Awkward right? I'm not sure if she thinks that every single friend that I have is some kind of sex object or whether or not she is just hard up to have sex with anyone that I know. What is she looking for?
I'm fairly confident in my own relationships with people, though I don't come around much any more because of the dangerous pursuit of these people by Laurie and her brother. It would look irresponsible of me, as a friend, to know what is going on and act like it is safe to be around my friends when, in fact, doing so would harm them, their family or their bank accounts. I just have to live in the future where one of them comes up to me and says, "you could have trusted me" but you all know that they would have acted much differently when they didn't know the full truth. Telling them the full truth, isn't really something that they've embraced in the past.
I don't know what "loophole" that Laurie is trying to find, but it would seem to me that a woman with a record in a courtroom claiming not to know anyone that I do should probably stop pursuing my friends and family the way that she does. It doesn't really matter if she meets them after that order or not...it all looks a bit insane to me and anyone else that is looking. I can't imagine anyone wanting to know anyone that I know given that she claimed some kind of fear of "workplace violence"...it isn't normal to want to get closer to the person you are allegedly afraid of. Human nature is to avoid it all together...instead, this woman went to a class reunion to do just the opposite and stalk my own sister and Sgt. Anderson's friend and ex-girlfriend. That's the kind of woman she is. She isn't afraid of me...she's afraid she'll get found out. In the meantime she's trying to collect up my friends like stamps or coins...that's offensive to me, but it is clearly up to them as to how they handle it. I have no say.
MY CONCERN FOR MY FRIENDS:
If Laurie is stalking me and watching whom my friends are, then has someone go to pick them up and deliver them to her, where she is promptly set up to flash them her vagina as an offering of sex....isn't she then trying to give them the very virus that all of my team suffers from...assuming that she is the Blue Widow? I am not worried that any of my friends would actually have sex with her...I'm saying that the "offer" shows you that she is willing to infect these friends without telling them about her plans. I would be negligent as a friend and as an informant if I didn't talk about this...nobody wants to think that they could have prevented an intentional infection if they just would have said something. I've been put in this position far too many times in the past and, in the future, I am trying to not have that conversation with anyone that I consider a friend. Make sense?
I am certainly not the person that decides whether or not my friends have sex with someone. That's always been their decision. Laurie thinks that I would be jealous. That's not true. I would be concerned for their health, not their bad choice. Furthermore it would be illegal for me to know what I know and not say something.
In the case of my boyfriend, Christopher Monti, she also gave him something to knock him out when he was introduced to her vagina. This shows that not only is she finding that her vagina is rejected, but that she is trying to knock them out after the refusal so that she can do what she wants to anyway. It is this kind of behavior that makes her a predator.
