Don't disclose anything to any narcissist, malignant or otherwise! …. If you tell them something good about your life, yourself, your family, achievements, or acquisitions, they will become extremely jealous and begin a campaign to undermine and diminish you. Some of what they say and do will be behind your back and some will be overt. If you reveal a disappointment, setback, a worry, a problem, they will catastrophize your situation to others to make you look pathetic, a loser, a train wreck, and a fool. Of course it will be your own fault for not handling your situation competently. They will spread your private information far and wide, enjoying the attention while diminishing you publicly. They will have nothing to offer you in terms of support. In fact they will exacerbate the situation and make you feel worse! Anything you reveal to a narcissist will give them insight into what is important to you and what bothers you. They will use all of it to disturb your life and emotional equilibrium. If you tell them about something you like or just got, they will get the same thing, only bigger and better! They will eclipse you every chance they get. Never tell a narcissist anything about yourself!
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