A Parent Coalition Is For Information To Be Shared Between The Parents, Victims and Public: Silence Is Not Welcome

Lori is always trying to see the world through "depressed lesbian in black" sunglasses, but they always seem to have a Lori-filter on them.  Nothing is her business, but she thinks that everything gay is.  From a person like her that hides in the closet, nothing could be more offensive to me than a woman that tells people about our community that isn't a part of it.  It reminds me of those people that say that everything gay is about "anal sex" when we all know that it's about love, not just some physical activity.  We simply support loving who you want to love...isn't that what heterosexuals do?

They want to love the opposite sex, that's cool with me because my mom and dad do the same thing.  I am a product of that love and I support that.  I, however, love a man, but that's not so foreign to my mom.  She loves a man too.  It's different so people think it's something that they don't understand, but it really isn't any different than a man that isn't in love with every woman he sees.  Those are the choices that people make and hold us responsible for.  You don't see heterosexuals saying, "You're wrong because you don't want to fuck every woman out there" do you?  Heterosexual men and women make choices all the time about who they sleep with, but nobody's calling them out on it.

Lori thinks that she is being "slut-shamed", but really, she was never an option for me or most gay men.  It's more of a "rapist and pedophile shame" that I'm going for here.  Lori isn't nice to anyone and she engages in criminal activity of a sexual nature.  It's not like she was someone I was going to be attracted to, but when you look without rose-colored glasses, who she really is, isn't all that acceptable to anyone.  Straight, gay or bisexual...or anyone in a different identification situation.  She's not a good person.  I don't choose to tell people that my experience with her is in any way good, because it isn't.  Jeffrey and Marilyn have the same opinion too, I'm sure.  It's got nothing to do with the word "lesbian" either.  Who Lori LaFond wants to sleep with doesn't concern me until that person is my boyfriend or unsuspecting children or my friends or my family.  You see, it's not about sex with Lori, it's about rape and control.  I don't want another friend of mine becoming HIV positive because she claims to be associated with me.  I have to distance myself from her by telling you all the truth.

I tell people to avoid her because she's a dangerous person, not because she loves women or men.  Children are not supposed to be considered a sexual interest.  It's illegal to have sex with anyone under 18 because they can't consent to sex.  They can say they consent, but it isn't legal.  Nobody consents to rape.

The choices that Lori makes are to remain HIV positive, implanting people with RFID chips, raping them to achieve that end, and intentionally infecting them with the HIV virus without them knowing that there was even a chance that they could be infected.  Then Lori enforces those bad decisions by using the police to keep them from investigating rapes that she is involved with.  She also contacts the hospitals when these victims go to the emergency room for services related to her crime by using the same RFID chips that she illegally implanted them with.  Lori's is a total effort to be a disease spreading rapist without any type of regret.  As AIDS drugs have advanced it is important to note that PEP and PreP are available when there is a chance of an infection or to keep yourself from being infected.  Sexual responsibility is everyone's responsibility, individually.  It's like this, if a woman doesn't want to get pregnant, she takes "the pill".  If a man doesn't want to impregnate a woman he wears a condom.  Both have a responsibility to keep that from happening.

Even sex requires consent for all parties involved.  An HIV positive person has choices, inform of status, take HIV meds that don't allow them to receive or pass the virus, celibacy, or all of the above.  I still say wear a condom, but even that is not as effective as HIV meds are now, both is preferred.  Does a HEP C patient have to inform their sexual partners of their status?  This is a curable disease, but something like HIV has and has had a stigma attached to it that it no longer needs to have.  My problem is the rapist that has the disease, doesn't get medication for it, denies that she has it, then fills up a needle or a bowl of blood so that she can make someone HIV positive (and Hep C positive, and syphilis, and staph, and tuberculosis).  I can prove that I've never intended to infect anyone because nobody has the disease from me, and also because I take the med that don't allow me to pass the disease on.

I take this role very seriously.  Lori likes to use her infections as blackmail to keep her secret safe.  Would someone say that I didn't inform them to keep someone like her safe?  I don't know, but I do know that I've done everything I could to keep this virus from spreading.  People can say anything they want, especially when someone steps out, but I can guarantee you that they aren't HIV positive because of me.  If they did say that, I would tell them and help them to seek HIV treatment whether it was true or not.  It wouldn't be true though.  My point is that someone is knowingly, intelligently, and purposefully trying to infect people then blame the people she has infected so that she can continue to rape.  That's the only reason that I think that viral transmission information is important.  It identifies the rapist that is doing this.  I think anyone that is responsible enough to consent to sex should also be responsible enough to protect themselves from the disease.  It's part of being an adult.  No matter who your sexual partners are or were, you have an obligation to keep yourself from being able to spread the disease or get it.  That's where we are today.

I am protected by the rape shield law which, by the way, includes all of Lori's victims.  It protects you from having your prior sexual relationship brought up in a courtroom.  Sexual blackmail is what Lori is in to, but I don't buy into it.  Anyone with HIV can live a full and fruitful life.  I support anyone that has HIV getting on and taking these meds and I'll show them how.  Even if someone accused me of giving them the disease, which I don't think is possible, I would still love them enough to say, let's make sure you are on these meds regardless.  You won't see Lori doing that.  I'm about safety.  In this world, you can't rely on a test from a month ago to keep you safe.  You have to take responsibility to keep yourself uninfectable and isn't that smarter than anything else?

My first priority is to my community and to the health of every American that consents to sex.  Rapists don't get consent, they rape. In Lori's case, they also gay bash someone's head in.   There is a lot more to consider here than whether or not someone infected someone, it's about stopping someone whose intent it is to give them HIV without question.

Lori likes to compare herself to the people that she's infected, it's not the same.  She is even telling people at their rape, while they are paralyzed but conscious, "You go out there and give this to everyone so that they know what she (Lori) is going through."   Look folks I want to be as responsible a person as I can be in this situation, so I've made people aware.  Let's save lives...isn't that the most important thing?

My intention is to give the child infected with HIV a chance to understand what happened to him.  I was never given that chance.  I got this without having sex or using drugs and there was no explanation.  Now there are films of Lori doing this to kids somewhere and I can tell you that makes me sick.  Nobody has to die from HIV, but if we don't stop Lori, someone else will.

This is a horrible crime and although I try to use humor to keep people interested, let's not lose focus of who and what we are dealing with here.  This is a person that doesn't care about any of you and she wants you to die.  I'm not that guy ever.  I love people and I've loved men that I know I didn't give HIV to, but everyone kept this girl a secret from me.  I only want to make sure that everyone can love each other again without Lori getting involved. She's a horrible person and she needs all of us working together to stop her.

Lori is looking for sexual control using her HIV and remote neural monitoring by extortion.  So before Lori ever says this to anyone else.  I have never and will never intend to infect anyone with HIV.  I always was safe and I'm saying that I've never infected anyone with this disease.  You know what Lori does, so I'm telling everyone here so that they know I have it, I can't give it to anyone, and I don't want you to get it from her or anyone else.  It's not necessary...take PreP, take PEP if you think you've had an encounter with someone that does...and be responsible for your own self...don't let anyone take that from you like she did to us.

For the record, I test positive for other diseases that I DON'T HAVE.  HEP C AND TUBERCULOSIS ARE ALSO DISEASES THAT I TEST POSITIVE FOR BUT DON'T HAVE. Lori's method of disease transfer is to use a needle and it has air in it or the blood is frozen.  I'd never had sex or used any needles when I was tested for HIV.   False positives are rare, but at that time it was all questionable.  When I was able to test for the AIDS virus and not antibodies, then I was certain and went directly on the meds.  I was always careful though.  You see there was a good chance back then that I didn't have the disease because of the way it was given to me.  

This HIV virus transmission direction is important for one thing.  It shows who the rapist is...not a witch hunt, but a bitch hunt.  We know who the bitch is now.