So you want to know how these girls do the things that they do to get a victim to comply with them. Let me give you this example. It involves lesbians and a tool belt, go figure. This is a good way for Lori to think she has a "friend" on the inside. A "friend" is defined in the Lori Dictionary as any person that will do something hateful to me...or lie.
When Lori and Brian moved to this area, I was certain that someone was stealing things from my trailer and the cars parked outside my parent's home. It wasn't just me either. One morning my dad got up and someone had stolen things from the back of his pickup shell. Among the items was a tool belt that he had for many years as a contractor. He uses it every time he fixes anything. He's built twenty or so custom homes in the area and does various projects for people that live here. He even worked at Lori's mom's house.
Nevertheless he came inside and was pissed off because someone had taken his tools, ladders, extension cords and of course, his tool belt. This is a man that always knows where every single tool he owns is. His tool belt is closer to him that I am. So when it was stolen from his truck, instantly I knew it was Lori and Brian. I even said so on this blog. Many times.
Suddenly when my money went missing and I wasn't happy about what had transpired with my yearbooks, scrapbook, clothes and keys being stolen, this tool belt shows up, after years of being missing. I had just written about it on this blog. Then I asked my father who pretty much mentioned it being stolen every time he worked, "Hey where did you find your stolen tool belt...?" He thought for a second and said, "It was in the back of my truck, it wasn't stolen." Now, I've worked with him on jobs and I know for certain that he'd sworn to God that it was stolen, but all of a sudden when I start looking into the money that went missing, it's back and it's not stolen. Bullshit.
What happens is these girls decided that to get my sister on their side, they would return this tool belt and say that Lori didn't steal it but that my father had left it at Lori's mom's home when he worked there. First of all, Lori's mom would have just called and told him. Second, the timing of my money going missing and Bessie, Missy and David showing up with it is a classic tweeker move. To deflect attention from the fact that it was stolen and Lori had it, she made up a story about leaving it at her mother's home. What are the odds?
So now, my father is telling a story that someone told him to tell. This is coercion, he knows it was stolen. He even knows who I said stole it. When it comes back he's brushed off something that he hadn't let go of for years. I was like, "What do you mean it wasn't stolen, I've been in back of your truck and I know it wasn't there?"
It was like all of a sudden, my father is "Lori's new best friend" for lying for her. This is stolen evidence that could be covered with tuberculosis and other infections, and now someone has coached my dad to lie. Not good on any account. In typical Lori fashion, the toolbelt was offered back as a way to make Lori look better and like I was lying, sort of. What in the fuck are the chances that happened the was Lori said they did? I don't even know if Lori is allowed at her mom's house.
All I can say is this is how these girls, aka Bessie Smith too, use people to keep their stories straight, but lying. If it was stolen, it was stolen, why make up a story about it and say Lori didn't steal it? Not helpful on any scale. This is how these girls operate, they drag you in and they don't know that Lori stole wedding rings, iPods, kid's formula, clothing, my keys, all my high school yearbooks...she just brought back the one thing that would get my father on her side. Do you see the manipulation?
It's subtle, but it's there. Remember the email Lori sent to me, both of them, neither kind to my father and certainly not something that she admits to, but she's made enough problems here already. She's been going to high school reunions for years and has tried with a friend to set my father up, now she's acting kind? Come on Bryan Anderson, you've never heard her do this?
It's all a backwards assed way for Lori to make herself believe that nobody thinks she's behind all of this, but she is.
But Jeffrey, how can you let this happen to another father is my question? You know what this is like, so you are obligated to tell the truth, missing money or not.
You see, my father, if given the WHOLE truth knew how important that tool belt was to proving that the girl that filed a restraining order against me was at his home and stole his family's belongings, then he would be far less likely to listen to anything Lori says. This way she thinks she's made a hole she can crawl through to get me, but that isn't going to happen because, I've already planted the seed of doubt with her emails to me. One conversation, a truthful one, with Bryan and my father and the world for Lori comes crashing down big time. That's how that went...
