What does it take to warn the public about a serial killer that looks for victims on gay male dating sites? It's pretty obvious that we have a problem but if the criminal was leaving dead bodies it is much easier than recognizing the intentional infection of HIV from a female that poses as a male on these sites. It's really a difficult thing to get people to understand. There is a high risk online that Lori and her brother will find you and have something happen to you if you date online. It's probably high even if you don't but why throw yourself in the lion's den unnecessarily?
At some point, if Lori isn't caught, there should be a public outcry for safety in our community. Online dating is something that Lori has turned into a place where predators go to hurt gay men. Whether it is sending someone over to do the job for her or going with her brother on a "mission" to implant a new person. Over and over I've tried to explain to people that this system of online mind reading has been placed over the top of online dating. It's going to get worse if people don't understand the risks in a community our size. This could easily happen in Los Angeles or San Diego too. The targets of Lori's desires seem to be people that I'd talk to, but I'm no longer interested in that scene...I haven't been for over 12 years. I have no desire to run into any more people with an agenda beyond a date or sex. I'm not interested in dating or sex so it doesn't really matter.
In the years that have passed, Lori has expanded her social media to include facebook, instagram and twitter so that she has a better chance of stalking and talking to the family members of this crime. She is literally dying to try out her new skills combined with online gay dating sites. If you put the two together, she loves the odds of ruining other families with it. Before it was whatever she could learn about a sister or brothers, but now, she has a whole new line of social media that she can pull from. It's a matter of combining the two now. Personally, I smell disaster coming.
When anyone combines what she "use to do" with "what she does now", you see a distinct pattern of family revenge that only Lori could dream of. I've already warned my family of the evils of facebook in our situation. They don't understand all of it, but some stuff they won't tolerate. Why does Lori need revenge on a victim's family? That one is easy, she needs the victim to become dependent on her. Why? I will never know. Lori is a bottomless pit of drugs and crime. There has never been and never will be someone that completely satiates her. In fact, the better at the job that a "friend" of hers is, the worse it gets for them. There is no better protection than having police officers at her beck and call. It would be different if they were concerned with the safety of the gay community and were looking for this girl, but they aren't. They refuse to take the evidence handed to them by their own lab and use it to find the girl that gay bashes men and women in the middle of the night. It's sad to think that 650 people could have been infected by one woman that is storing her blood in the refrigerator. That's Dahmer stuff everyone. It's sick. It's the "human centipede" for someone like me that has to keep his blood clean to live.
To have had a police report with this kind of information that they showed me, sat on then pretended it didn't exist, says something. Either someone on the inside of the PSPD is covering up Lori's rapes or Lori is doing a great job of misleading law enforcement professionals with a whited out copy of page 2 from the real report. It's sad to think that our police chief would condone this activity. It's not something I'm lying about either...I saw the damn report.
I think it is a sad state of affairs that something like remote neural monitoring stood a chance in a place like Palm Springs, California's gay community. It shows the deep division between the Hollywood elite and the lay gay male. This is a city with a rich acceptance and tolerance of all walks of life yet if you interviewed the victims of this crime, to a person, all of them will tell you that there is a "big hairy huge fat pink elephant" that resides here. If you aren't careful, you will get HIV from someone intentionally spreading the disease and you will be arrested if you speak out against it happening. The "gay promiscuous stereotype" was promoted endlessly by a homophobic rumored lesbian that I've known my whole life and yeah, she is capable of this much hate. She is. That's just the whole thing. The one girl in this universe that I know could commit such a crime has opportunity, the right level of hate and motive...and she tells people about me. How can it not be her?
People don't realize the effort it takes to expose something that has been in place for decades. It's a system of spying and infecting followed by extortion and blackmail. The only assistance that is offered is the police who are a part of the crime. After you realize the circular patterns of this crime it is important to realize the living in Palm Springs as a gay man is far more dangerous than people think. There is a huge monster that lives there and nobody was willing to address her until me. I can't live with knowing who is behind this and not saying something. That's not a crime. If the police are not willing to do the investigation it's like giving Lori a free pass to rape. That's not a place where anyone needs to live. Throw in her proclivities for children and others and you have utopia for a rapist that reads people's minds. It's a really different situation than most understand. I hear from this person all day and night...I can't forget her invasion in my life when I have to live my life this cautious. Nobody should have to. She is far too dangerous for our community to live with. But we have for nearly thirty years now. This crime is spreading and getting worse and our community can't withstand this epidemic again. It's time to stop her for good.
I have absolutely not one single problem warning gay men that are planning to come to the Palm Springs area. Trust me, the ones that are still alive and living there are very aware!!! We all know about the problems with the police and privacy. We all know about the infamous "Lisa" or "Jessica" or "Sara" or whatever she is calling herself, but since there is no place to turn, nobody is saying anything. Just look at the news report on the right hand side of the page. Are you going to report your rape if the police are going to tell people, on air, that the rape victim that reported the crime has "mental issues"? I did that interview already knowing what the police said because someone has to have the courage to stand up for these men in this situation. My own boyfriend at the time was a victim, so was the boyfriend before that...and on and on. This cycle of drug dealing and violence is like that. Ask Christopher Monti if he experienced this or Steven Frey...if they thought someone was going to arrest her, they would tell you the truth. None of us wants her in our lives...we just have nowhere to turn.
I've told you how difficult it is to get the point across when there is so much fear from our community because of the repercussions of taking on this monster of hate. I've lived with her in my life without my permission since I was 19. I know what it is like to speak out against her and ignore her, neither is a good thing. Not talking though is not an option for me. I have to speak my truth and this crime is taking a toll far greater than on my life...it's draining California of money that should be a going for other things. Billions of dollars in HIV medication and social security disability is being spent because one woman hates gay men and sees us as her business opportunity. I am not a business opportunity for Lori LaFond. I am the kid she bullied when he was in sixth grade and still does because of this crime. Won't someone help us?
This is a great picture of Brendon and his wife, Sarah Orzechowski, two of the finest people in show business...and so cute together!
