I use to say that Lori LaFond has a "wait" problem, because she is so aggressive that she just can't wait to get someone in trouble. She never has the ability to see what could go wrong if she proceeded with her plans. It's always "jump first then see where she falls." Her friends have a tendency to follow her though because she has all the drugs that they want to get their hands on. Lori is also very suspicious. She use to tell Jonathan Mendenhall that he couldn't use her bathroom to pee in because she didn't trust him. She insisted on watching him if he urinated. I think she told him she had to hold it for him too. It wasn't Jonathan's favorite thing...he usually left and told her that she was ridiculous.
See the picture above? "Welcome to Lori's one bedroom luxury apartment", yes, that's how she would describe the park bench she is going to have to sleep on if she continues to try to "throw her weight around" with me. I'm not joking, this is the same girl that has lived in more shit hole homes that she and her brother destroys than any "homeless couple" that I've ever known. Lori is like a homeless person...only not as nice.
Have you ever had the misfortune of knowing someone that doesn't know the weight of the situation? Her life is always glamorous while yours is always rock bottom. That's the Lori LaFond Method of "making herself feel better". Not that its a priority for anyone, especially her victims. Why should we "make Lori feel better"? For many years this was the philosophy that Missy Pissy and David told Jeffrey to follow. "Don't make her mad," was the best advice that they could give? Let's think about that for just a second here.
Why, if both of them are victims of Lori's lying and hatred would either of them suggest this method of engaging Lori? Nobody that has ever been victimized by Lori has ever suggested being nice to her. I certainly wouldn't. The reason is simple, if you are nice to her, she sees that as a weakness that can be exploited. You immediately move up the "Chart of Suckers to Rip Off" list. If you pay Lori the kind of attention she needs, forget it, you'll be there all year long catering to her desires. That means you will probably have to rob someone, commit an act of violence for her or some other illegal activity that she doesn't want to get her hands dirty with.
Doesn't it sound like "we should be nice to Lori" is something that her drug clientèle would say? Sure enough, the only two people that believed in "being nice to Lori" were two of her best customers, David and Missy. Um, that's not who a police investigation needs to be working with. We need people that tell other people to stand up for yourselves and fight back. (Not physically or what Lori will turn that in to, but fight for their own rights as human beings.)
Most people think that I am writing this post because of all the problems that she has caused me, that's not true. She's caused all kinds of problems with my friends and their parents, not to mention she is the rudest woman I've ever encountered. Her tone, language and audacity are so over the top she reminds me of a female impersonator, not a woman whose life depends on the "kindness of strangers".
It's the shit she has to say about people in the newspapers, on television, to the police or hospital that I'm over. I can't believe that the police would actually go on television after the arrest of Christopher Monti and say that he was "homeless" or "a strong arm robber", this could affect his career as a priest, but nobody seems to think about the defamation of character that he and I've been through as police informants. Lori hates police informants unless she is one. She's not. She's a snitch and a liar, that likes to spread hate propaganda against gay men and some women. She thinks that by blowing out your pilot light, you won't get hot again. It's a time honored tradition between the police and Lori that anyone that is a good person, goes to jail if they aren't someone that Lori likes. That kind of shit is 1980's not 2010's. Nobody has to be put through the lies and deception that Lori creates with her friends in that home of meth addicts.
Most of my friends know meth, but they didn't make it their career like Lori and Brian have. In fact, most of my friends weren't using meth any longer when Lori went on the rampage in 2008. You see, not only are you not allowed, by Lori to stop using drugs, she will make the police think that you are still using. I can't tell you how many times Lori has told people the falsehoods of my own drug use, but I can assure you, the police always thought I was using something and I never was. What I really love is the meth problem that she and ALL OF HER FRIENDS have, then they throw shade at all of us because they can't stop. It's a choice and a privilege to be sober. This is one of those, not so gray areas where Lori wants her victims to look like they are on drugs and she is some kind of "Mary Poppins Good Samaritan". What a freaking joke!!!
Nobody in Palm Springs history has used more drugs than Lori and she is, according to Jonathan Mendenhall, just as homosexual as all the rest of us. She is often more homeless than Christopher ever was and she's ten times more violent than anyone she's ever had arrested under false or illegal circumstances. I really love how she paints a portrait of herself as "The Virgin Lori". She, according to herself, is a model citizen, she just doesn't have a job or income or a family or a husband or really anthing that a "model citizen" would have. It's all a charade.
I should know, I'd spent years and years getting my body into tremendous shape. I worked full time and spent 90% of my time doing something for my job. When I would come home to visit, I'd get the third degree about using drugs for some odd reason. Here I was a big and healthy as I'd ever been, but Lori had been telling people that I was some kind of junkie. That's not true and neither is Lori's story about how her brother is gay and has friends that are also my friends. Let's get one thing straight right here and now, Brian LaFond could never have been friends with any of my friends without Lori going insanely jealous. Look at Jonathan...Lori could let him out of her sight. Basically Lori snooped and spied on me during her stalking then had to come up with a story about how she knew these things. Lori has a real problem with what she could know and what she does. She's never around me, so how could she have known anything without this remote neural monitoring system? Her brother doesn't know any of my friends on his own, he's only met them after they've been my friend.
The way she treats her own friends and their families is appalling. Here's a typical picture of Lori and one of her gay male friends, like Christian, David or Brian:
You see, in Lori's World, there are no men. Men are not necessary. Men should be treated like dogs. It always leaves me wondering, what man fucked her over? Now what she will tell you is that it all began when she was in high school and dreamed that she and some high school football player were "dating". I know all of the parties involved in that one, she wasn't dating anyone, but she tells people that she was. Some desperate high school guy wanted to lose his virginity and Lori had the reputation for filling that hole...um...bill.
I've heard that really what was going on there was a "feeling out" of this football player's girlfriend, who happens to be one of my BFF's. I'm not blaming Lori for this tactic. Hell, I've used it before myself. What I am shocked by is that all these years later she still claims that this boy "did her wrong", but he didn't. Lori has never dated a man or a woman, nobody wants to I guess. When you realize that relationship means that Lori comes first ONLY, then you start to get why the leash is necessary. Lori needs to control a sexual partner so that they won't leave her. It's like Missy Pissy. She won't leave Lori because of all the history that they have together. I'll bet that most of Missy's friends would say, "I can't believe she lets Lori talk to her that way." Missy Pissy apparently is NOT the kind of lesbian that likes being told what to do. Lori isn't willing to let that go just yet. How long until we see Missy with a dog leash on her?
A woman always knows a woman better than a man could...do you believe that? I know I don't. I think Lori's "perfect relationships" are always fucked up. She never dates anyone that is male that is not gay...mostly flamers (some of my favorite guys are flamers).
All these stories that come out of Loris mouth about opulence and wealth are simply figments of her methed out thinking. Lori was never popular nor was she pretty. Lori was always just the girl trying to start a fight that she wasn't getting involved in. She'd literally push someone in front of a person to make them fight. She tells people that they were "fighting over her" but that is a misnomer. They were fighting because of her and not really about her.
One of the other misnomers is that Lori knows all the cops. Now, she'll tell you on the microphone that "she has" lots of cops that will arrest a victim of this crime as soon as she says something to them. She's not only acquainted with the police, most of the time she tells people that she is a police officer. She's not. In truth and in fact, she wrote on her restraining order that she ONLY KNOWS Bryan Anderson. Um, that's not true. In fact, she tells us that she is "friends with Chief Reyes". There was a point that he appeared in court for Lori, who pretended that she was someone named Vicky Rabb. While I was in the middle of that hearing, she told me that "he's my friend". Um, then there is Rae Fernandez and we all know the two of them know each other. She even asked Rae to help her file this restraining order against me, but Rae said, "No." Frankly I was surprised, but when the real issue is whether or not I was telling the truth about Lori, even her "best girlfriend" said, "No way Lori, I can't help you if this is what he is talking about."
One thing that I am really interested in finding out these days is just how many people did Lori LaFond tell that she was "working for the police", "is a police officer", "works with Bryan Anderson as a police officer" and so forth. I can tell you one thing, when I was arrested, I was put in a holding cell and the police cerainly acted like she was in charge of them while they held me all night long without a single shred of evidence. They can't falsely imprison someone when a drug test comes back negative. They have to cut you loose. I spent so many nights in that holding cell that I can't recall the actual number. I wasn't on anything and hadn't committed a crime, but I was there because Lori said so.
In fact, Lori has tried so hard to have me arrested and sent to prison, that I'm betting she told her father and mother about it every single time. You see, what Lori was hoping to do was have them talk to my parents or spread the word that I was in jail...again and again and again and again. I can tell you all something too, if Lori was in jail before all of this, I wouldn't have said a single word. I kind of figured she would end up there anyway. She was always in trouble in high school. She never had a kind word to say to anyone. In fact, if Lori was in prison since the day she turned 18 I wouldn't have thought a single thing about it. She was that unimportant to me. Still is. Now, however, I can't wait to see her there. I will take out an ad in the local paper just so everyone knows that I wasn't lying.
I often wonder what it would be like to have Lori LaFond in an interview with law enforcement where they had the facts and Lori got to explain things to them. That situation would probably be the funniest thing in the universe. Innocent people don't usually have a problem interviewing with the police (although in Palm Springs, if you are involved with this investigation I would recommend against it: they threaten people), but a sociopath confronted with the facts, not yet in play in a courtroom? Seriously funny. Lori can't go to the bathroom, come back and tell you the truth. She is a habitual liar and now she has to wonder about what story isn't lining up with another story. The more that we can put out there that is TRUE, the better off we will be. The funny thing is this, she's so aggressive that she doesn't realize that when she files things like restraining orders, she is already interviewing with the police and lawyers. She's bald faced lying to people like cops and attorneys and is using her own name. Now how many victims of this crime could get her to admit to who she is?
One. Me.
There are very few of these victims with the ability to do what I can do. I've known who this person is and what she is like longer than almost anyone. I even have friends from high school that I am certain will be helpful in coloring in this picture. There is a disadvantage and an advantage to being me. I'm kind of the link from the past that crosses the bridge from Lori's early childhood to her adult passion; sexual sadism. The odd thing that most people think is that I'm not as surprised as most people would be with a person that they didn't know in high school doing this. It takes a certain amount of hate that most people you don't know won't show you; Lori is quite different than that. She has no "off" switch when it comes to her mouth and poor behavior. No filter. No edit button. She seems to have these "secret" plans that nobody else knows about until she springs it on them...then everyone scrambles to fix the mess she made.
The exaggerations and embellishments are just lies. What truth lies beneath can only be known by her brother and others that spent time in her presence. There isn't any more valuable insider than Jonathan Mendenhall. Lori had no idea how close we are as friends so she couldn't foresee the problems she was about to have with my return. I actually have many friends in Palm Springs, I am from this area too. So when the bullet shot at me in San Diego missed, I had little choice but to investigate who was following me and why? Being followed in Redlands and San Diego was a symptom of the problem, I still had to find the source. Who wanted to follow me? Ex gay boyfriend? AIDS police? This had gone on for so long that it had to have originated here. The other thing was that there were people willing to follow me from San Diego out to 29 Palms, a 2 1/2 hour drive. The stalking by car was pointing out where the source was.
I'm not going to lie to any of you. I hated the desert where I am from my entire life. Though there are some really great people here, there is a whole different climate in Palm Springs, California. Most people that I know would agree, there is definitely something a little off in the Coachella Valley. You would think that the sunshine and swimming pools would mean it was relaxed and resort like. That's not true if you are a gay man. This is a treacherous place full of victims of this crime that Lori can call up from her living room to come and harass you. You don't have to know them to know the look in their eyes. I've seen it a billion times. What use to be a haven for gay people when Lori and I were kids, wasn't any longer. It, by the way, is not a secret in 1985 that Palm Springs had a lot of gay people living there.
Lori had to know that, everyone did. Knowing her feelings toward me maybe a year or two earlier and how she voiced them to everyone, why would she then move into the Warm Sands area of Palm Springs which is THE MOST GAY AREA OF ALL??? Lori didn't act like she liked any gay people, so she moves to an area of Palm Springs where she is surrounded by them. Hell, I'm a gay man and even I, while I was coming out, wasn't going to live in Hillcrest, that would mean I was fully gay. LOL. Doesn't get more gay than Hillcrest...I love it there!
So you put a violent bigoted big mouth, with the technology to read minds stolen from 29 Palms Marine Corp base, in an area of 99% gay men, then we have a problem with a girl that infects and implants gay men with chips that can read a person's mind...and Lori wonders why she is suspect? I don't know about most of you but when I add two plus two I get four. I don't add like Lori does though. Lori thinks that she didn't look like she was a bigot after high school. Well I have two friends, Beau and Brian and I know that both will tell you that she was a loudmouthed bigot then too. Too nosey and way too eager to call the police. Probably Bryan Anderson, who was suppose to be dating her at the time (1985 - 1989). Was this the beginning of the transfer from high school bully to full on terrorist? Her gay agenda is well supported by the HIV infections and the multiple illegal arrests of people around her. I'm guessing, but she probably tried to have her whole apartment complex arrested, one by one.
Lori's not one to "live by" people. Her mother will tell you that she's not good in a neighborhood setting. Lori tends to get nosy and starts making up her fantasies when she administers the "good neighbor" policy. Brian is like that too. He likes to pretend he's a neighbor that is concerned...but the neighbors should be concerned about them. Which makes me wonder about her current neighbors in Joshua Tree across from the Sheriff's station? How to the other seven houses feel about the one in the corner? That strange girl that screams and yells all night long then tells people she is suffering from Tourette Syndrome, a neurological disorder that causes people to jerk, but sometimes they uncontrollably swear, but that doesn't explain why she's awake all night every night. Lori doesn't have Tourette Syndrome, she has a filthy mouth and she's on meth, the two can look the same. LOL
I also have to say this. As much as I am the only person that could do and say what I do and say about Lori, she is the only person that could have caused the kinds of problems that she did when I would notice them. You see, I don't have enemies. I really don't. I have people that I've met, people that I've met and am friendly with and friends...if someone is that much of a negative distraction, they don't fall into a category of someone I know. In Lori's case, I didn't know her at all, just incidents...all bad ones. Then I would come home to 29 Palms for a visit and EVERYONE treated me like I had this huge drug problem, but I'm working and making more money than most. I looked good because I was good, but I use to blame it on my sister. I thought that she had told people in this small community the things that Lori was telling her, that's not true. Lori was spreading the rumors. Who better than the girl that infected me with HIV to tell people I had it? Then she goes around telling people that I give it to other people on purpose, how could she know anything like that unless it was a fantasy? I wasn't. In fact, being intentionally infected with that virus destroyed my sexuality if anything.
I wasn't the person that Lori wanted me to be, so she invented me. I didn't come back here often enough to care what people thought because I was busy working for the U.S. Justice Department. What did I care if the people in this small town didn't have the right picture? Well now it makes sense when you look at the shooting and what I was thinking about being followed. Lori was setting up a disaster and planning for me to move into it. It was a horrible experience. Well planned. Well executed. As long as everyone didn't say Lori was behind it. Jonathan did. Barbara did. Lots of people know it. It was Lori's plan to bring me back to Palm Springs, since I didn't die, to show off! Show off her system. Show off how much power she had. Show off what she could do to my friends and loved ones. She wanted to prance...peacocking!
The problem is that I couldn't have cared less, I wanted her to strut her stuff in front of me...and at CCBC, she did! Seeing Lori at a gay nudist resort is like seeing Hitler at a Bar Mitzvah...she stands out. Maybe it's the boobs? Maybe it was that annoying voice? Mostly I knew it was her because I saw her face and she was calling herself "Jessica"; Jessica? Bitch your name is Lori LaFond, you aren't some "Jessica" or "Victoria"...you're a desert girl...your name should be Juanita or Tanqueray, but it's not some soap opera name like those. Just plain old bigoted Lori LaFond. She had that same "I just bit into a lemon" look on her face too. I think she was hiding out. At any rate the guest that I was there with had lots to say about her...mostly that she was robbing his bank account. He was even paying for her room!!! He didn't want her in his room so he paid for hers. That's the truth!!!
Lori is the only person that I know of with a mouth that big. Remember, all I said on my old facebook account was "Does anyone know where I can find Lori LaFond, I hear she is a lesbian now". Remember, I'm gay, any friends that I would have on facebook would be gay, but other people I know would know her...to me, not a bad thing, to her...the worst thing a human being has ever said, which I guess is why she screamed it at me four or five times at school and elsewhere! Actually what she screamed was, "Kevin Bond your are a flaming faggot and everyone knows it!" So I think what I wrote was appropriate give that Jonathan gave me the information...
The thing wasn't that I wrote it, so much as how quickly she responded. She probably was texting people and commenting on it the second it was posted at like 3:00 am while I was working overnight. Who the Hell has that kind of alarm system?
I'm just saying that whenever the truth needs to be told, she's always lying about it. She knows things like when I am walking out of a courthouse with her uncle and they didn't throw me in jail. How? She wasn't there. On another charge that was dismissed, she sent a message from Steven Frey's phone that said, "u r a deadman" before we even hit the freeway. My mom read it. How is she always reacting to private moments in my life? You don't see me doing that. Lori literally sends out a mass email to people apparently. I had no idea I was such a topic of conversation for her and why would I? I never knew her. I didn't like what I saw and heard. I don't have friends that particularly like her. Mostly I don't know why she has such an interest.
The "lesbian" thing is probably something she's embarrassed about because of the way she behaved in high school. The thing is that I've seen that relationship with other friends and it's one of the better ones...the aggressor grows up and apologizes for being such a weirdo. Not Lori. She's gonna be a bitch until the last breath exits her lungs. It won't be something I did though. (I also preach a solution of non violence and peaceful legal investigation) Truly we are dealing with the mentally ill here. I know there is a tremendous syphilis factor too, so this is a person that is not well.
You see this perfect storm does have to do with me being the way I am and the exact opposite in Lori. I am nothing like her. She is the polar opposite that does not attract, it pushes away! What she's in to, I'm disgusted by. I'm sure she'd say the same about me. The really strange thing is that as much as she knows what she's done that pissed me off, I know that I have the other talent...I can make people happy. She's not that girl. I have a talent for explaining myself too, that comes from a court background. Just as my old boyfriend who sold drugs for a living. When his customers came to the home, I would go outside so as not to witness the sale. I told him the same thing I always say, "The less I know, the less I have to testify to in court." This way I never had to say, "I saw so-and-so buy drugs from so-and-so", who needs that kind of grief. If asked, I'll say it just the way I did above because enough of my friends have heard me say those very words. A person's addiction is personal, it's none of my business. Lori is the opposite. A person's addiction is exploitative. To Lori a weakness is a weakness even if she shares the same one, yours is worse.
No matter who you are, you aren't as special as Lori is! That's her whole philosophy, she's the "most important person". She'll tell you that until you auto-respond the answer subconsciously. "Hey Kevin, who is the most important person," anyone could ask and she's drilled into me that the answer is always, "Lori's the most important person", but my entire body refuses to say or think it for real. Once someone has badgered and belittled you to the point of exhaustion, like a coerced confession, a person will say anything to shut her big fat mouth. Several things here: I am not afraid of her, I have had too many bullets and rapes to not be concerned. I do not talk to her, she communicates to me. I would rather not hear her at all. We are not now and never will be friends, friendly, acquaintances, school chums, fag hag/gay boy, none of that. She is an obsessed person with a serious mental disorder. I am not.
What should not be mistaken in obsession with me. I am not obsessed about Lori LaFond, I am obsessed with stopping this crime from happening to Christopher...he's a nice guy. My friends. Strangers. I can't help it if Lori is the person that does this, that's the whole reason why I'm the guy that does this...see. I can't do my job as a citizen simply because I know this psycho and she feigns the victim. I have to tell you she's going to feign the victim and watch when she does. She's a sociopath...they act, they lie, they are never wrong. So whoever has the job of deciphering her mental labyrinth had better put down more than bread crumbs to find his way out. It's a long way from the edge of that mental maze to the center....I'm glad I don't own that PhD. My suggestion is bald, fat not attractive male would be the best person to interview Lori.
Any female would be subject to her, "a woman has to protect a woman" attitude. Any professional would see right through it. In fact, most trained professionals are going to wonder how she managed to survive with the little that she had. It is a testament to Lori's roach like quality of survival. She probably learned it from all the roaches that she's lived with. She's certainly is a rat! Oh yeah, she lives with those too.
