I'm not exactly sure how Lori LaFond intended to actually become a member of anyone else's family but hers, but one thing is certain, she sure thinks she is. One second she's someone's friend, then she's "like a sister to them", she's investing their finances for them or she's telling people that she was "married" or "engaged to them". The fantasies that have turned into reality in her head are numerous. None of them true.
Anti-social people do not assimilate well into other people's families even with all the inside information that Lori and Brian gather about their victims. You would think that with the kind of inside track that they have, that Lori and Brian would know better than to use the kinds of tactics that they use. For example, making a victim's family hate them, is one of the most common things. Most people have families that KNOW their kid, it goes way beyond any rumor that a stranger could tell them. Lori is certain that she has ruined all the family ties between the four people that live with her and their parents and family. She's so sure of it she literally tells them, "Your mom doesn't even love you." "Your father can't stand you," is another one. This comes from the conversations that both Lori and Brian try to initiate with parents of the victims or their other kids. She's done so many horrible things that she thinks this is how you make friends, by destroying their families. It's obviously not a good idea.
First, the families are never told the truth about who Lori really is. I doubt she uses her real name, but the story is the real shame. She tattles on drug useage, promiscuity, HIV status and all kinds of "gay" issues that she believes will make a victim's parent think much less of them; even when they are a close family. All of my friends had no criminal record and few had financial troubles until they were raped, implanted and harassed. This is a cycle that Lori used with her own brother and it worked, so why doesn't it work with other people's families?
Here's one reason why that doesn't work.
Our families, the victims' families, are stronger than she ever imagined. Lori couldn't really afford to have the families of her victims think highly of the victim...they would help them. So the first thing that Lori does is tell them about the victim's drug abuse problems...even if they don't have one. For example, Jackson Velin, a friend of mine and a long time victim of this crime, once lived right down the street from Lori and Brian. Not only did the siblings do their best to destroy the relationship between Jackson and Steven, but they went after Jackson's kids and his 90+ year old mother.
When Lori hatched a plan to break into his home, she called Jackson's sister and kids and told them to arrange an "intervention" for him and he wasn't using drugs like that. He has a full time job, never missed work, was a loving and caring father, but Lori wanted him to look bad, so she made some phone calls, acted like some kind of "concerned friend" and had his family ambush him with an intervention. He was whisked away in the middle of the night against his real will. This would leave his house open for robbing. Steven had to go and break him out of a rehab that he didn't need to be in. Jackson, as I recall, was very upset. He had a right to be. First of all, an intervention is a last ditch effort to save someone from their addiction. This man was planning his daughter's wedding at his home. He was working at a very prestigious job making good money. He wasn't behind on bills or anything and he was taking care of his elderly mom, whom I think is implanted too. The siblings implanted a 90 year old woman because of her bank account. A dastardly plan.
My belief is that Jackson's family was given the impression, by Lori, that Steven had infected Jackson with HIV or was somehow involved in the implantation of Jackson's chip or both. Jackson's kids have the wrong impression of Steven, the way I did for a while. All bullshit created in the mind of a thief sociopath.
Similarly, Lori did the same kind of snow job on me. She would send people into my home to spy on me, then she would call my sister or brother in law, whom Lori sold drugs to, and tell her all kinds of lies. Exaggerate my drug use and then act like she had nothing to do with it later. She would call my sister and tell her where to look for my drug stash and to call my parents. She would tell Bryan Anderson to call my parents after I was arrested. Every single time it was about "being a sister" or "being a friend", um, your enemies don't do that, but Lori does. She no more had a right to talk to my family about me, or anyone else, than she does about people she's never met. Basically, she and I have never spoken civilly. She screamed, berated, tried to humiliate me and never could make a dent. I'm a good person and most of my friends would never buy her lousy story. I never missed work or school. I got my college degree and the only horrible thing that happened was that I got HIV without having sex or using drugs...from Lori, allegedly.
How did she legitimize any of this...she was and still is, an impostor. A bitter enemy in friend's clothing. A razor blade in an apple. Poison in your freshly squeezed orange juice. She's only doing this "out of concern for your family," Lori will tell people. First of all, if Lori was so concerned about my family then why did she rape me? Why did she infect me with the disease that she spreads rumors about? Why does she pretend to care about gay men that she absolutely hates in her real life? Putting innocent men in jail doesn't mean that they are hardened criminals like Lori tells these families and the press. Our families went 35 - 40 years without any kind of criminal record. All of a sudden ALL OF US decided to "break bad"? Our families have decades of experience with us, they know us to be good people. All of a sudden this loud mouthed girl that calls every minute of the day is calling our parents to "rat us out" under the guise of "concern for our family"? Not good.
What Lori wants is MONEY! She thinks that being the victim's personal tattletale, makes her a valuable member, by proxy, of the victims family. That may work in her family, but it doesn't work with us.
The other day, for instance, Lori was telling everyone about how, "She and Mrs. Mendenhall use to be so close." She literally characterized herself as her daughter in law. This is how desperate Lori is to find a family that will subsidize her terrorist organization under the guise of "family". Not her family, mind you, ours!!!
I jokingly refer to Christopher's sister, Amanda, as "my sister in law." Nothing, in this universe, makes Lori more upset to think that someone took her spot in my life, than that. The thing that gets her is knowing that I look forward to having a sister in law that is like Christopher's sister. Accepting, loving, enamored of her brother, that I love. This has been missing from my life. I think a lot of men can identify with that feeling. It's not just a "girl thing". It's a "person" thing. You want your partner's family to love you and accept that you love their family member. That infuriates Lori, after
all, she didn't spend this much time ruining my life to see me happy. Only her.
The role of the snitchy bitch sister is what Lori loves to be. It is the role that she plays in her own family. Troublemaker. She's never met a relationship that she didn't want to completely destroy down to having child protective services remove the kids from the home. This is who she is. I have no doubt that if Lori continued to sell drugs to my brother in law that CPS would have been contacted and my beautiful nieces would have been taken from my sister and him. My sister, not being stupid, removed the kids from that home and tried to contact Bryan Anderson to see where the drugs were coming from. Bryan suspected Lori, I would imagine, but I know it was her because my brother in law told me. Since Lori's already done as much damage as she could to her own brothers and sisters, she needed to branch out...and she's been doing it since I was 10 or 11 years old. Why she picked my family? Who knows? Serial killer's choice?
One thing that I've found to be extremely odd is Lori LaFond's need to know who everyone I know, is. She doesn't just want to see a picture, she wants them in her living room while she hot dog's herself. Girls are the worst too. If I have a friend that is female, which I love, Lori is ballistic about finding her and everything about her. My college girlfriend must have been the single most targeted female ever. I don't know and can't imagine how many things Lori did to try to meet her. I do know that her maid of honor at her wedding was contacted and told to spy on me. She even moved in across the street from my boyfriend and me in San Diego. This girl was from Riverside...all of sudden, she moved across the street from me in a completely different city. Weird right?
Lori literally sent my college girlfriend to meet my boyfriend in our home that we lived in. One day I came home from work and there was my ex girlfriend talking to my current boyfriend...it was surreal to say the least. I knew that they would get along, but what was Lori's point. For one to tell the other that I had HIV? I wasn't having sex with either....and didn't. Lori, the girl that gave me HIV while I was knocked out, literally was calling significant people in my life and forcing them to talk about this. It was my business, not hers.
When that didn't work, she sent her brother into San Diego to shoot me dead. This is why I can't live with her jealousy in my life.
People want to know how my team managed to get incriminating information from the Palm Springs Police Department? It's actually quite simple. Lori LaFond, while she was still at the PSPD, pretended to be Officer Rae Fernandez. It had to be a female because of the voice that had to be used to "impersonate" her on the phone to people like my employers, the Commissioner's secretary, my friends and other people that she could pass herself off as a cop. Knowing what Officer Fernandez knew like badge numbers and police procedure, Lori would then log in to this cop's email and start making requests as Rae Fernandez, so things like my first DNA report, Lori had someone send to her. The report would then come to Rae's email and Lori would then download it. This way she knows what holes there are in the siblings' stories. That first report was so damning that Lori had to get rid of the whole thing. The Police Chief either knew it or didn't, but one thing is for sure, he knew I'd be furious with him.
We have lots of things that Jonathan and others were able to take from Lori legally because the computers she used were stolen property...mostly his.
I got emails from Officer Fernandez' account at the City of Palm Springs that told me to "take her off of my email list". I'm sure she never read them...but if she had, she would have been much better equipped to handle the situation with Lori who posed, as usual, as her "sister friend". If Officer Fernandez could have read about who was working with me and what we knew, she may have been less likely to arrest the people that she did for Lori.
The gay community, after thirty years, began to think of the PSPD as a gestapo police force against the gay community. When I say the gay community, I mean all the gay men that Lori didn't like. That's one single gay hating female's opinion being forced upon the police that were led down the garden path, like so many of Lori's other victims were.
The urban legend was born out of innocent men being put in jail by a female drug dealer. The legend doesn't exist for no reason. I learned about it in San Diego, but the rumors stretch as far as Los Angeles and San Francisco. It isn't an honor to be the girl that fucked with so many innocent men and the police department that helped her. This, by the way, does nothing to stop the drug dealing or addiction problem in Palm Springs. 1 in 20 people is estimated to be a gay man. Then you have to consider that many, if not most gay men, are not meth addicts. Do you honestly think that erasing the lives of those few men that did use drugs is sending some kind of message to anyone but the gay community in "secret". It is NOT a secret. Lori's presence did nothing to stop the flow of drugs to the heterosexual community...if anything she took away the resources that would have helped in this area. She thinks this means that straight people that hate gays will like her. Um...I think that is the lamest thing I've ever heard of. Lori would, if she could keep her brother from getting his ass beat by straight me, love to steal from the straight community. Her brother isn't very good with heterosexual men being knocked out and coming after her brother...and their wives and girlfriends, would have no problem having a confrontation with Lori.
We were chosen because Lori and Brian think we are weak...and the police enforced it.
I have to promote a campaign of non-violence and peace in this investigation because there is so much hatred for what these two have done. It wasn't because of me, it was because of their cavalier attitude towards stealing from and then humiliating their victims. It is one thing to steal from a person, but to have THEM thrown in jail for it...is absolutely priceless for Lori. To have a victim pay for his own torture...classic. Do you know how many people in the heterosexual community would have put up with their daughters and sons being raped and infected. I can promise you the police would have handled it differently. I've even seen people campaign for parents that killed their son's molester. Literally, the whole city or town supported finding the perpetrator and having him shot. That's not the way I want things to be. I want Lori and Brian to be held up in front of a court so that they can admit to or be found guilty of terrorism. It's justice. Killing someone is never justice.
Violence isn't something I advocate. Sure, I've been very mad at the "girl" and "boy" voice in my head...because they were fucking with me. Constantly. There wasn't a day that went by where Brian or Lori left me alone for decades. If you don't think that made me angry, you are crazy. I just decided that when I knew it was her, that an approach of non violent and peaceful investigation would be better knowing Lori's personality type. She plays the "impostor" victim better than most think. She's even called herself by a different name to the Police Chief who went out of his way to shame me, a rape victim, in court, on the record. I'm not going to let that go.
I don't know how to explain the violent nature of a constant conversation between myself and the person that gave me HIV on purpose. It's mocking me. It's an attempt to humiliate me even further. What the police did to help these two was an even further humiliation. What the police said on the news about me, was an even further humiliation. None of this is going to make a person peaceful or non-violent, but then you realize it's Lori LaFond. This is the girl that always wants it to look like a gay man infected her and her brother with HIV. It isn't true. At any rate, I know how far she goes to make herself look innocent, even when she pushed a kid in front of a moving car in high school with tons of witnesses. She still tried to blame me and I wasn't even there!!! This is a lifelong struggle for Lori...she just has to do something to me that ends my life. She's done it many times without any interference from law enforcement. Now I am demanding law enforcement look into her past...and look carefully. Don't fall for computerized red herrings or text messages or emails...look at where they came from.
As for Lori and her constant, "Don't say anything about me or my brother," all I can say is this: For the better part of 30 plus I never mentioned your name while you destroyed my future. In that time you never stopped and never cared about my family or what their feelings would be. For you to even suggest that I shouldn't say anything about you or your brother doing this to me isn't about to happen. I know it's you. You know I do. Now it is your turn to defend your life...hope you do as well as I'm doing.
