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| No More Pleasing Missy Pissy and Lori LaFond!!! |
1.) Ignore Everything They Do and Say:
The biggest mistake you can make is trying to change them. They won't so don't attempt it! Lori and Missy try to bait you into a conflict. Once these two know your triggers, they will use them against you. Trying to understand them is only bringing you into their conflict...don't even bother. If you can't ignore them away like Missy or Lori, then act like you are going to do what they say, then do whatever you want.
2.) Hit Their Center of Gravity
These two girls are constantly trying to dangle a carrot. They will always use their strategies against you. Pulling away the carrot is their way of controlling you. Don't allow it. Instead hit these girls in the center of their gravity. In this case, it's this system of mind reading. Lead them astray. Use their system to your advantage. All they know is what you think...but what you think is under YOUR control. Know your goal and know how to manipulated their system to your advantage, not theirs. Once you have realized the limitations of this system, hit these two in their center of gravity: Make this system of mind reading yours! Make allies with their friends, find experts that are better at this then they are, siphon away their most precious resources like drugs, internet or porn.
3.) Trust Your Judgment
You know you better than anyone. Would you want your life to be like Missy Pissy's or Lori's. Even my life is better than theirs because I took back all the control they had. Define yourself. Don't ask questions of Lori or Missy to see what their opinions are, clearly they are in stark contrast with your own. You want to be free, they want to control you. Two totally different endings. Don't ask your enemy for advice...treat them like the manipulators that they are. Make your beliefs your boundaries. If Lori steps over them, then don't give her any power to do it again. Take steps to stop her from doing that ever again.
4.) Try Not To Fit In
I am who I am because I never valued becoming an operator from this system. I didn't need to know what everyone was thinking so I could form an opinion. My opinion, from the beginning was, this is wrong. It is wrong for someone to hurt me then punish me if I talked about it. While other victims did favors for Lori, I went on the television news to tell people about her. Reinvent yourself, consistency is neither virtuous nor is it smart in this situation. Mix it up. Being consistent only allows Lori and Missy Pissy the ability to predict your behavior and manipulate the outcome. Consistency keeps you in a box...that's why this investigation is so long in finality. Inconsistent behavior doesn't allow Lori to get a fix on how you are. Change your patterns. Don't fit in, work harder to stand out!!! Personal growth requires change, consistency allows for too much involvement in your life and the lives of your friends and family. Don't let her talk to your friends or family before you do. Warn them about her manipulative behavior and let them know you won't appreciate it if she successfully manipulates them into hurting you!
5.) Stop Compromising
Guilt is a useless emotion and a powerful tool for Lori and Missy Pissy. These two manipulators are way too fond of the past and your mistakes or because you are happy and they are not. "You shouldn't feel good about yourself," Lori and Missy enforce. That's bullshit. Doubt is another manipulation. They don't call Missy Pissy, Mrs. Doubtfire for no reason. Missy Pissy liked to doubt that Jeffrey Katzenberg could understand and defeat Lori using the information I developed...that kind of self doubt manipulated a two year investigation into a ten year investigation. Doubt causes uncertainty and it is during this period that they manipulate you into thinking that they have the only answer. Immediately stop feeling guilty and doubting yourself. You should be proud of who you are and your accomplishments and goals. Working toward them is something of an achievement. Not getting to them is a manipulators dream outcome. Compromising on your own happiness is not success, it is self destruction.
6.) Stop Asking For Permission
It is easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. Don't sit idle and act like you don't matter, speak your mind and don't give in to someone else's opinion simply because they are louder. Speak the fuck up. Missy Pissy liked manipulating Jeffrey into believing that if he didn't ask her permission, as if he couldn't do anything without it. What would happen if Jeffrey just acted and didn't give a shit what Missy Pissy thought? This would be over. None of us need her permission to be treated like human beings. Fuck her. You can take control of your life whenever you damn well feel like it. These two girls don't like it, then fuck em.
7.) Create A Greater Sense of Purpose
Missy Pissy had a policy of "keep Lori happy", you know why? Because Lori is her drug dealer...you have to keep them happy or no drugs. We don't use drugs so we don't have to keep Lori or Missy happy. Our goal was to stop letting these two bitches tell us what to do and how to do it. Fuck them both. Our goal is greater than the next line of meth to snort or needle in Lori's arm. What are you getting out of that? Absolutely nothing but more manipulation once the nose bleed stops. Why are you here if you don't want this to change? Log off. I only want people reading this blog that want to end this crime, not prolong it. There's a sucker born every single minute and Lori and Missy think you are it. Fuck them. Don't let these two girls distract you. You have a goal and you are going to reach it. If they start barking at you, ignore them until you can find another way to keep them from manipulating you. Do something that they can't.
8.) Take Responsibility For Yourself
Once Missy Pissy showed her true colors, which was like, a day after she got there: "Don't help Kevin or his family", she should have had her ass kicked out the damn door. Fuck her. I have a bigger goal than to snort a line and listen to Lori bitch all night long. Missy, couldn't care less. Nobody feels bad for the obvious patsy...like Jeffrey. Stop blaming Missy Pissy for all the manipulation she got away with and do away with her altogether. Yes they won't go away...but you doing nothing about it, isn't making a change. You aren't reaching your goal. If Missy and Lori out think you, that's your fault. Be accountable and learn from your mistake. Don't make it again. Cut these two bitches loose. You can't expect greatness with two manipulators taking everything from you...you have to take it back and delete them from your life.
This is your ONLY life. Are you going to waste another ten years of it on two girls that aren't going anywhere that have nothing to do with your own personal success? Fuck that. I want to live the life I WANT...not the one they let me have. Fuck it. If you think that everyone is going to clear your path for you and light it, you are crazy. Find other people that have the same goal as you do and finish this project. Crimes have been committed, people died...it's time to focus on who is responsible and how to stop her.
