Laurie has offended me for years. Foolishly, I once believed that being gay might actually have been good for keeping her away from me. When I first met her, she was extremely homophobic and abusive, so, I figured that she would be the last person on Earth that would ever want to know anyone that I knew for more than just berating, abusing or tattling on. I thought, like you would, that if she hates gays so much, she would never want to be anywhere that I was. Sign the contract, I'm gay, no more Laurie. Wrong!!!
What I've found out is that some people that are phobic, actually put themselves in a position to use that fear to attack other people. You wouldn't think that a person with arachnophobia would put herself in a room full of spiders would you? Why then would a woman that hates gay men want to be anywhere near them? This is where Laurie differs from other people. She is a rare type of sociopath when it comes to her irrational hatred of gay men. She is obsessed with being near them. Having sex with them. Becoming the "other woman" in a relationship with two men. It's like a fag hag on steroids.
To mask that feeling that she has, Laurie uses her brother whom is a "Baby Huey" type of guy. Brian, her brother, is older, not more mature, easily manipulated, on drugs and kind of helpless. Since neither has ever had a job, Laurie likes to think of herself as "the brains of the outfit". That alone is scary. The other scary part is that her brother, can't ever really see the manipulation of his sister's need to hurt him. He acts like his baby sister is a substitute for his real mom. Laurie loves that role. It's kind of like Jason Voorhees and his mother from the Friday the 13th movies. Laurie tells stupid what to do and he goes out and does it trying to please her. Laurie is never pleased or satisfied. She can't be satisfied, her goals are unreasonable and satisfaction would lessen her control over her brother and friends.
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| Laurie and Brian...er, I mean, Jason Voorhees and his mom Pamela, shortly after this picture was taken, Laurie was heard to say, "Kill her Jason, kill her!" |
The only time that I've ever known Laurie to seem satisfied was when her brother was pretending to be Peter DiMartino, the fake one, that was involved in my rape. She likes to think of her brother as an assassin. A hit man for the mob. A sexually competent man that satisfies her every sexual need and whim. This was a role she loved her brother playing so much that she forced everyone to call him "Peter". I think she was under the impression that if everyone called him that, he would continue to act like the man that raped me. Let me be clear here, Peter DiMartino did not rape me at Steven Frey's home. Brian LaHuey, pretending to be Peter DiMartino, said that he did. He and his sister, that is.
Laurie is also not above pretending to be a man that she isn't, but only in emails and text messages. She's pretended to be more gay men than any woman I've ever heard of; not that I've ever heard of that before. Laurie thinks she knows everything about everyone I know and that she can pretend to be anyone I know in a text message or an email. She never really makes the grade though. It always ends up sounding like the bully that I knew from high school. Stupid. Out of context. Misunderstood. Full of lies. Too sexual. So when Brian, pretending to be "Peter" said that he and "Steven Frey" had raped me...he was talking about his sister, pretending to be "Steven".
I have one text message from Steven Frey's phone that says: "Any good ones (pictures) of Peter (Brian), Christian and I (Laurie)". This is an illustration of Laurie pretending to be someone she's not and using her brother's made up persona to pretend to be my rapist. Sending messages from Steven's phone number as Steven saying "Peter is taking me on vacation" and "Peter says hi" was Laurie's way of trying to provoke me with the two names she told me had raped me, when what she was really doing was projecting a rapist image that she and her brother have on to two people I know.
So what's the deal with Laurie and my friends. Apparently she is super jealous of the fact that my boyfriend is a really exceptional guy. My friends are exceptional people. They are handsome, smart, masculine (sometimes...lol) and have a great education. My friends look like this...here is one: This is Peter Diffenbauch...you wouldn't have liked to be me when I first met him and his boyfriend. Laurie was beyond insane with jealousy:
This is Peter. He is an adult film legit star and more importantly, a registered nurse. When I first met him and his ex boyfriend Glenn, another friend of mine, Laurie went absolutely insane crazy. My friends are eclectic and awesome. Some have fame. Some have money. Some don't. I love them all. Laurie believes that she should also know all of them and tell them not to be friendly with me. That never works. Usually she lies about working with the police department and tries to scare them away from me. My real friends stick by me, but lately they aren't anywhere around. I use Peter as an example only because he's recognizable and I would have been a better friend to him if it wasn't for Laurie's constant need to intrude in my life, which would have meant his.
My boyfriend is a priest. He's an amazing person. I have friends that do everything from construction workers, to school employees, to Playgirl models, to soap actors...my friends are nice people. I can hear Laurie right this second saying, "Why can't I have his friends?" And she is serious!!!! She's tells people that we're from the same town so why doesn't she have these kinds of friends? First of all, they are GAY MEN. Second, she does nothing but treat gay men like they are dirt under her pedicured hoofs. Third, she's foul. Fourth, she's the world's biggest gossip monger and my friends like their privacy, so you can imagine what it is like for me to keep their stuff secret while she is doing any and everything to find out every last detail about them. The worst part is this crime. I lose out on a lot of fun opportunities with my friends simply because I can't afford to be around them with this stalker around me.
Laurie has this thing she does too. She acts like her brother, Baby Huey, is the one that is interested in these people. The truth is that she gets him thinking that they would like him for her. You can't meet guys like my boyfriend, Christopher or Peter (above) dangling bait like Baby Huey. She tried, for years, to use Jonathan Mendenhall as the bait in her trap, but he grew tired of it. Jonathan cost me a lot of friends introducing my friends to Laurie. Lots of them. I forgive him for that, but he will eventually make that up to me.
Laurie used Jonathan like a dating service for my friends to "be delivered" to her lair. Over the years they've used Christian, Jonathan, Evil Steven #3, the Underwood Devil tattoo guy...and a few others. Not much compares to me as a friend. I'm never the way she describes me...but you'd be surprised how quickly they back away. So she doesn't end up knowing them and I miss out on their friendship. You can see why Laurie isn't more successful with gay men...she's not one of them.
