You all know that I've paid the highest of prices when it comes to telling you the information about what Jonathan Mendenhall confided in me after I became an informant for the Palm Springs Police Department. Not only did he give me the identity of the woman known as "Lisa", he also told me that she was a total man hating lesbian. That's what he told me...what I actually said that got me in trouble with her was "I heard she is a lesbian now..." and from there I got a restraining order and a warrant for my arrest.
Without going too far into it, the restraining order woman then said, on court papers that she didn't know any of my friends "post high school"...of which Jonathan is but one of many that have been contacted by her. My own sister admits that this "woman" has been contacting her over the last 35 years...something else that is not, at all mentioned, in that restraining order.
Regardless, I want to explain what I have learned what "Lisa" has done to herself and blamed me for...this is what she tells people.
In order to keep me from being happy and to try to impress my friends and boyfriend and police officers, she offers up a story about me to them as a victim of this crime. She literally stalks out and had Jonathan find the men that I know and would summon them to her residence where she would extol the virtues of her "system of torture" using me as an example. You might be asking yourself, "Why would Lisa seek out Kevin's friends to tell them that she has been following him for the last 35 years?"
Good question.
She tells these men that she "use to be my best friend in high school" or that "I use to work for her and know that I'm implanted" or that "I'm a real asshole and she has been following me for decades to pay me back for something"...thinking all the while that they are going to be impressed or scared that she is able to do this. Personally, I think it's really creepy and am dealing with the 35 year stalking by myself knowing that a therapist isn't really going to believe me until my team shows everyone what this is about...thank you very much Palm Springs Police Officers that know this is true.
My friends, boyfriends and acquaintances that she's met and thrown herself at usually come away feeling threatened not to tell me, but totally turned off by the information that she has given them. Some of the information, allegedly, is that her brother is the person that tried to kill me in San Diego. That is how she keeps them from telling me that she's met them. Even Steven Frey has called Brian a "hit man" that was going to kill his parents if he stayed with me. That is the truth. My father even confronted Steven about that and he clammed up.
So the reason for this post is something that I know that Steven Frey, Jonathan Mendenhall, Christopher and many others will relate to. Lisa is looking for what I like to call a "skirt". You know when a gay man wants it to look like he's straight he has a girl with him to make him look like he has a heterosexual relationship with a woman...they call her a "beard". Well, when a lesbian woman wants it to look like she is a heterosexual woman she has a gay man around, like her brother Brian or a friend of mine, that I call a skirt. A "beard" makes a man appear more masculine, and a man makes a woman appear more feminine; "a skirt". Lisa wouldn't be caught dead in a dress or a skirt, but a handsome devil of a man like Christopher, my boyfriend, would legitimize her "charade".
The problem with this is two fold. Most times a gay man with a "beard" isn't looking for sex, but it would appear that Lisa's "skirts" are approached for sexual favors...only she's done herself a huge disservice. First she's approached a gay man...by definition, a man that has sex with men only. Secondly, she's already told them the story about how I, refused to be nice to her after she called me a "flaming faggot" on my first day of high school then proceeded to follow me for the next 35 years to make my life miserable. If they weren't into it initially, she's totally boner killed them off with the second point. No man, hetero or homo, is going to attempt to have sex with a woman that goes Glenn Close on them after a :30 second conversation, like I had with her, then she tells them that her brother tried to kill me...and he's sitting in the room with her. HUH? No man in the world is gonna hit that...and they tell their friends.
I am certain that over the years Lisa has told her mother, father and sister that she's had lots of boyfriends that buy her things...the reality is that none of them are straight from the beginning...she knows it...and she steals from me and others and says that the jewelry or iPod or iPad or iPhone she is using is some kind of gift from a "lover that turned out to be gay". After all, it is Palm Springs, mom, all the men are gay there...(this is sarcasm). Jonathan suggested to me that the "find a gay man friend of mine to fuck Lisa" is about HIV...I have never said that Lisa has HIV or that her brother does. Lisa has been telling people almost since the day I tested positive that I have HIV...I don't know how she possibly could have known that...only my family knew that truth and none of them would have ever told anyone back then.
It has been suggested that I was infected when I was implanted...my team is going to have my HIV genotyped to see if it matches the profile they have...if so, I would have been infected by a woman...and I can promise you I have NEVER had sex with any woman or shared a needle or used a needle EVER.
Is it possible that sleeping with one of my friends is an attempt to excuse an infection to her own family? I don't know and would never say for sure unless I was. I do know this. She's been very vocal about me being positive long before I was. She's told police about it, fraternity brothers about it, ex girlfriends about it and probably Christopher too...Steven definitely. So what's her objective?
The reason that Lisa can't find a man to have sex with her according to Jonathan is because she isn't interested in men, she hates them. I know one thing, the woman he told me was Lisa definitely hates gay men...I know that for a fact. She closed that door day 1 of high school. The reason I thing no man will have sex with her is because she scares them away with what she tells them about me...it isn't funny, it's psycho. No man, straight or gay, needs to be followed because they turned her down. I should know.
She's cock blocked herself so this thing that she tells people, "He would have been my friend if it wasn't for Kevin" is a bunch of shit...it's her way of sour graping a situation that she caused by being so aggressive in her attempts to slander me with my own friends.
When she is asking people to hit me in the face after 35 years of following me, then meets my sister at some class reunion to act like she's her friend but to deny that her own family is related to her...we are dealing with a really disturbed person. That's just way too much for my family to ignore.
Lisa can go around telling people that this blog is keeping her from being herself, but this blog is popular because of decades of her acting like herself with nobody saying anything at all. It isn't because of me that she isn't living in Palm Springs, it's because she robbed Steven Frey before she left...she knows it's true, I'm just her usual scapegoat. I've been that for 35 years, why would she change now. It's difficult after all the gossiping she's done.
So now I'm "Clam Jamming" her with Christopher? Bullshit, he's my friend, my boyfriend and my co-informant. He no more wants her than he wants me not to love him. We belong together and she can't stand it. We fit. She doesn't. She's so mad that he's my boyfriend that she put him in jail, but I don't want her, I want him. This will make her "Clam Bake" but even Christopher's mother knows that I love him, so Lisa tried to cause problems there too...this is how crazy she is. She just can't leave us alone.
Laurie, you need to "Keep Your Clam, Off My Man"
