When it became apparent to me that Laurie wanted to steal my work product (and my underwear) I realized that it was important for me to put the evidence online here on a blog where parents, Bryan Anderson (my police contact) and victims could see it. It is a living, breathing, online diary that adults can look at and get my side of the story along with critical pieces of evidence that I've collected over the years.
It is safe to say that only one woman has ever sought to take this blog offline using rather questionable illegal methods. Funny, that same woman is the woman that Jonathan Mendenhall told me was "Lisa". Understandably, I was careful to make sure that when I spoke of her again, I would only refer to her as "the petitioner" from the City of La Quinta.
This blog is intended for Christopher Monti's family to come to grips with what is going on here in Palm Springs with me, him and our friends. I am sure that Lisa doesn't like that either because she likes to target my friends and take away all affection shown to me by anyone...that's whom she is.
The second intent is to draw the criminals out of their hiding places by giving them certain pieces of evidence but not all of them. Police do this all of the time to find out what a person of interest knows or claims not to know about the situation. Clearly Lisa talks out of both sides of her face. To the police she acts like she knows me, but to others she claims not to. To some people she says that she's having an affair with Bryan Anderson, but to others she says that "four year relationship" mutually ended years ago.
Lisa meets all of my friends and is very sexual towards them, but when her advances are not returned, she tells them about her homosexuality, whether it is true or not. Some people protect themselves from rejection by "sour graping" the notion that they have been rejected by the object of their seduction. "I'm gay, I didn't even want you anyway and I'm so offended that you could even believe that I would want that penis thing of yours..." is a common response given to my friends when they reject her obvious attempts. Jonathan Mendenhall was severely sexually harassed by this woman for years...
The third and most important to the police is the information that I post here is my work product for my informant work. This is where police can go to find out what Lisa is saying about them. They can come here to see IP Addresses, emails, text messages, federal liens, hateful flyers, hateful post cards, what was missed in Christopher's arrest and other pieces of information that will lead them to the door of the perpetrators of this crime. It is a big mistake to think that I don't like police. Before coming to Palm Springs I enjoyed a very close relationship with federal law enforcement agencies and agents that gave me a very healthy respect for truthfulness and the law. I've seen informants, investigations, trials and procedures and managed thousands of criminal cases that never looked like what we have here in the Coachella Valley.
My friends think I'm very smart. I tell them that I'm just really experienced. With the kind of years of law that I've been involved with, it would be really dim of me to not have proceeded the way that I have. I knew what risks to take and I knew what not to do. What I don't understand is why Lisa has ever looked as credible to this police department as she has? To me it is a clear case of hate crime against gay men...she only talks about them, only has them arrested and only has the worst things to say about us. I don't think she's ever really had a gay friend...just gay people she used and tried to have sexually assaulted. Remember folks just because her brother is allegedly gay does not make her "gay friendly". In fact she's told many people that she hates that about him and that she's made it her life's work to "make a man out of him". To me, that's the most ridiculous part of whom she is...a woman doesn't make a man out of a man by tearing his whole identity apart. Making him a brutal bully.
This blog is how I get to tell you all my story. Lisa had decades of telling all of these cops and my friends and her family, her side of MY story, but now I get to have a say. If you can't see that I am not a drug user. If you can't see that I am sober. If you can't see that she's used the police to try to hurt me and Christopher...then you can believe her. I think that a reasonable person would see that I've never wanted to be anywhere near her and would have forgotten completely about her had she not forced her way into my life the way she has.
She tells everyone that she "hates me"! I've said this before and I will say it again. Hate and love are two very serious emotions. They require a closeness and familiarity that I don't have with this woman. I don't know her well enough to hate her and I certainly have no feelings of love for her on any level. I find her terribly unattractive physically and morally...she simply "hates me" because she's stalked me for so long and doesn't like how people are with me. They are friendly, out going, nice and kind. I get invited to do all the things that she doesn't. When she lies to them about me, they don't believe her and she just has to convince them otherwise. She hates me because I'm "too nice", but I am not nice to her. Would you be? My family and friends know about my HIV infection and that I'm gay and they love me for it...she hates that too. She hates Christopher because he makes me happy. She hated Steven Frey for the same reason. She constantly refers to her vagina and anal sex like they will turn me on sexually...ewww...first of all it's her and second of all I'm gay. Even my straight friends are turned off by her overt advances...and vulgar sexuality aimed at them.
Straight, gay, bisexual or purple, this woman is a complete turn off to me...her unwanted advances at my friends and family are disgusting and harassing.
This blog is also where I go to heal myself. I get a chance to vent my frustration with a broken system that has kept me from being happy with my boyfriend now since the day we met. I want Christopher to be happy...that's the most important thing to me. I want his name cleared and his reputation restored to the Lutheran priest that he is. He's a nice person...he's nothing like the police and Lisa made him look. I can clear my own name, but Christopher is all alone here, I have to help him do that with what I know.
Remember folks only ONE PERSON has ever tried to get this blog offline...that's important. That makes that person a person of interest...it is compelling and it is a fact.
